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Think win-win is the best way to make the deal? Think again. It s the worst possible way to get the best deal. This is the dirty little secret of corporate America. For years now, win-win has been the paradigm for business negotiation the fair way for all concerned. But don t believe it. Today, win-win is just the seductive mantra used by the toughest negotiators to get the other side to compromise unnecessarily, early, and often. Have you ever heard someone on the other side of the table say, Let s team up on this, partner ? It all sounds so good, but these negotiators take their naive partners to the cleaners, deal after deal.
Start with No shows you how they accomplish this. It shows you how such negotiations end up as win-lose.
It exposes the scam for what it really is. And it guarantees that you ll never be a victim again. Win-win plays to your emotions. It takes advantage of your instinct and desire to make the deal. Start with No teaches you how to understand and control these emotions. It teaches you how to ignore the siren call of the final result, which you can t really control, and how to focus instead on the activities and behavior that you can and must control in order to negotiate with the pros.
Start with No introduces a system of decision-based negotiation. Never again will you be out there on a wing and a prayer.
Never again will you feel out of control. Never again will you compromise unnecessarily. Never again will you lose a negotiation.
The best negotiators:
- aren't interested in yes they prefer no
- never, ever rush to close, but always let the other side feel comfortable and secure
- are never needy; they take advantage of the other party s neediness
- create a blank slate to ensure they ask questions and listen to the answers, to make sure they have no assumptions and expectations
- always have a mission and purpose that guides their decisions
- don t send so much as an e-mail without an agenda for what they want to accomplish
- know the four budgets for themselves and for the other side: time, energy, money, and emotion
- never waste time with people who don t really make the decision Start with No offers a contrarian, counterintuitive system for negotiating any kind of deal in any kind of situation the purchase of a new house, a multimillion-dollar business deal, or where to take the kids for dinner.
It is full of dozens of business as well as personal stories illustrating each point of the system. It will change your life as a negotiator. If you put to good use the principles and practices revealed here, you will become an immeasurably better negotiator.
About the Author
Jim Camp has coached people through thousands of negotiations at more than 150 companies, including Motorola, Texas Instruments, Merrill Lynch, IBM, and Prudential Insurance, as well as many other smaller companies in a wide range of industries. He has lectured at graduate business schools in the United States and has been a featured speaker at " Inc." magazine s Growing the Company conferences. Jim runs Coach2100, Inc.
Industry Reviews
"Jim Camp offers easy-to-apply strategies to help make you a more effective negotiator. You'll learn techniques that you can use immediately to improve your negotiating skills by reading this book." --Joe Mansueto, Chairman, Morningstar Mutual Funds
"This book is an amazing read and right on target." --John Kispert, Chief Financial Officer, KLA-Tencor corporation
"Jim Camp's negotiating system is a powerful set of disciplines and tools that helped our salespeople function in our customers' world--which ultimately led to a better negotiating process with our customers. Start with No describes his approach in detail and is recommended reading for our entire staff." --Scott Sturm, vice president of Sales, Entegris Corporation
"Jim Camp's book is a sophisticated course in applied psychology that shows how you can change your behavior so you can sell your ideas, especially in sales situations and other negotiations. The most effective executives will find the results astonishing." --Bob Boehlke, Member, Board of Directors, DuPont Corporation
