Not Your Type

This isn't another book about dating. It's a book about waking up.

Not Your Type is about the moment you finally stop asking, "Why does this keep happening to me?" and start asking, "What is this trying to teach me?" It's about learning that love isn't supposed to drain you, confuse you, or make you question your worth. Love is supposed to expand you. But to find that kind of love, you first have to unlearn the patterns that made you settle for less. This book invites you to look beneath attraction - to see the emotional wiring, the beliefs, and the stories that shape who you choose and why.

It's for the person who keeps attracting the same type of partner in a different body and finally realizes: maybe it's not them. Maybe it's the lessons I still haven't learned. Each chapter helps you peel back another layer - of old habits, of past hurts, of conditioning that told you chaos meant chemistry. It's part self-awareness, part healing, and part permission slip to start again - but this time, from a place of peace.

There's a saying I love: "Knowledge is knowing a tomato is a fruit. Wisdom is knowing you don't put it in a fruit salad." If there's one hope I have for you after reading this book, it's that you leave with that kind of wisdom - the kind that comes from experience, reflection, and the courage to finally choose differently.

And somewhere in these pages, I hope you start to see yourself in a new season - the fall of your old patterns. Because fall teaches us something powerful: everyone loves the beauty of the leaves changing, but few stop to realize what it truly means. The trees are letting go. They are releasing what's no longer needed, trusting that by shedding what has served its time, they're making room for something new. That's what this book is - your personal fall. A gentle letting go. The end of a version of you that once protected you, so you can become someone who no longer needs that protection.

This isn't about becoming someone new - it's about returning to who you were before the world taught you to doubt yourself. Because when you start aligning with who you really are, love begins to meet you there. Not Your Type is the reminder that your healing isn't about fixing yourself - it's about remembering yourself. It's about choosing growth over comfort, peace over patterns, and love that feels like home - not chaos. And when that happens, you won't have to chase what's right for you. You'll attract it, naturally - because you'll finally be living as the person you were always meant to be.