
Essential Manners for Men 2nd Edition
What to Do, When to Do It, and Why
By: Peter Post
Paperback | 8 May 2012 | Edition Number 2
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- Social media: social networking, gaming, and the world of online dating
- Communication in person: greetings, handshakes, and how to make the all-important good first impression
- Communication on-the-go: texting, e-mailing, and using smart phones
- Life changes: dealing with bumps in the road, from divorce to layoffs
- Weddings: the man's role, from groom to best man to usher, and the changing nature of the bachelor party
- Entertaining, dining, tipping
Peter Post is a director of The Emily Post Institute and author of five etiquette books, including the New York Times bestseller Essential Manners for Men. As the creator and primary presenter of Emily Post Business Etiquette programs, Peter leads business seminars for companies both in the United States and abroad. Since 2004, he has authored The Boston Sunday Globe's weekly question and answer business etiquette advice column, Etiquette at Work. One of Emily Post's four great-grandchildren, Peter is a sought-after etiquette expert for television, radio and print media interviews. He has more than 25 years of experience in marketing, communications, design and education, and holds a master's degree in fine art from Pratt Institute and a bachelor's degree from the University of Pennsylvania.
| Preface: Men Want Answers | p. xv |
| Introduction: They Just Snickered | p. xvii |
| Daily Life | |
| The "E" Word | p. 3 |
| Etiquette Is … | p. 3 |
| Being Inconsiderate and Being Disrespectful Go Hand in Hand | p. 5 |
| The Top Three Issues in Daily Life | p. 8 |
| Bad Habits Lead the List | p. 8 |
| Making a Mess and Not Helping to Clean Up Matters-a Lot | p. 9 |
| Acting in a Superior Manner Is Really Frustrating | p. 10 |
| Other Annoying Behaviors | p. 10 |
| The Top Three Most Impressive Things Men Do in Daily Life | p. 11 |
| Other Hot Spots | p. 13 |
| Seeing the Man in the Mirror | p. 13 |
| Sharing the Load | p. 14 |
| "What TV Show Are We Going to Watch?" | p. 16 |
| The Telephone | p. 17 |
| Passing Gas | p. 18 |
| Scratching What Itches | p. 19 |
| Attire | p. 19 |
| Hygiene | p. 20 |
| Pet Problems | p. 21 |
| When You're Not the Problem | p. 21 |
| Two Rooms That Can make or Break Your home Life | p. 23 |
| Clean Kitchen, Warm Heart | p. 24 |
| The Battle of the Bathroom | p. 26 |
| How Others View Us | p. 32 |
| Smoking | p. 34 |
| Chewing Gum | p. 35 |
| Spitting | p. 35 |
| Who Cut the Cheese? | p. 35 |
| Swearing | p. 36 |
| Women Swear and Men Gossip | p. 37 |
| A Man and His Car | p. 38 |
| Driver's Ed-iquette | p. 40 |
| "Don't Worry-I Know How to Get There" | p. 41 |
| In-Person Communication | p. 43 |
| La La Land | p. 44 |
| Quality of Voice | p. 45 |
| Listening Skills | p. 46 |
| Topics | p. 46 |
| Jokes | p. 46 |
| The Importance of Nonverbal Cues | p. 47 |
| Telephone Communication | p. 48 |
| Volume Control | p. 49 |
| A Revealing Question | p. 49 |
| The Cell/Smartphone | p. 51 |
| You Are What You Write-Warts and All | p. 53 |
| The Handwritten Note | p. 53 |
| The Stationery Drawer | p. 55 |
| E-mail Hell | p. 56 |
| Six Tips for E-mail Success | p. 56 |
| Texting: Danger, Danger, Danger | p. 58 |
| Meeting and Greeting | p. 59 |
| Greeting People | p. 59 |
| The All-Important Handshake | p. 61 |
| Making Introductions | p. 62 |
| Mr. and Mrs. or John and Mary? | p. 66 |
| Tipping 101 | p. 67 |
| Appropriate Tips for Business and Professional Services | p. 68 |
| Tipping at Restaurants | p. 70 |
| Holiday Tipping | p. 72 |
| Tipping When Traveling | p. 74 |
| Working Out, or, Lost in Your Own Thoughts | p. 76 |
| Leaving a Pool of Sweat | p. 76 |
| The Unwanted Stare | p. 77 |
| Grunting | p. 78 |
| The "I'm More Important Than You Are" Syndrome | p. 79 |
| Hitting on Women in Midworkout | p. 79 |
| Your Personal Trainer Is a Person | p. 80 |
| Class Courtesy | p. 81 |
| the sporting life: on the field and in the stands | p. 83 |
| It's Okay to Want to Win | p. 84 |
| Do the Little Things That Matter | p. 85 |
| CheatinÆ Charlie and Sandbagger Stan-The Scourge of the Course | p. 86 |
| Friendship vs. Changing the Foursome | p. 87 |
| A Friendly Wager | p. 88 |
| The Golden Rule of Spectating: Keep It Positive | p. 88 |
| Referees Are People Too | p. 89 |
| Parents and Kids | p. 90 |
| So Now You're a Dad! | p. 92 |
| Sharing the Responsibility | p. 93 |
| Coaching Your Own Kids | p. 95 |
| Spectating at Your Kids' Sports Events | p. 96 |
| The Soccer Dad | p. 96 |
| Social Life | |
| The Best and the Worst in social Life | p. 99 |
| The Most Impressive Thing Men Do: Use Good Manners | p. 100 |
| The Ideal Escort: Appreciative and Attentive | p. 101 |
| Dressing Smart, Smelling Fresh, Looking Good | p. 102 |
| Acting in a Superior Way-Men at Their Worst | p. 103 |
| Foul Language Foul | p. 103 |
| Dating-Just You and Her | p. 104 |
| Just You and Her | p. 104 |
| Remembering and Celebrating Special Occasions | p. 105 |
| The Importance of Flowers | p. 105 |
| Opening Doors | p. 106 |
| The Revolving Door Dilemma | p. 107 |
| Helping Her with Her Coat | p. 107 |
| Walking Together | p. 108 |
| Standing | p. 108 |
| Who Pays? | p. 109 |
| To Flirt or Not to Flirt? | p. 109 |
| On the Town | p. 111 |
| Sharing Expenses | p. 112 |
| Bar Etiquette | p. 112 |
| The Etiquette of Splitting the Bill | p. 114 |
| Small Grossnesses | p. 115 |
| The Good Guest | p. 117 |
| The Invitation | p. 117 |
| At the Party | p. 120 |
| The Hostess Gift | p. 120 |
| Thank You | p. 122 |
| entertaining at home 1 | p. 23 |
| Cleaning Up-The Right Way | p. 124 |
| The K.I.S.S. School of Home Entertaining | p. 125 |
| The K.I.S.S. Meal Plan | p. 125 |
| Last-Minute Details | p. 127 |
| The Good Host | p. 128 |
| Potluck or Group Parties | p. 130 |
| Dinnertime | p. 131 |
| The Three Most-Asked Questions About Table Manners | p. 132 |
| A Quick Journey Through a Formal Dinner | p. 134 |
| During the Meal | p. 136 |
| At Dinner's End | p. 139 |
| The Houseguest from Hell | p. 140 |
| The Etiquette of Visiting: Be Clean and Helpful-and Share the Remote! | p. 140 |
| The Five Keys to a Successful Visit | p. 143 |
| Meeting the Parents | p. 147 |
| Social Media | p. 148 |
| Social Networking | p. 148 |
| The World of Online Dating | p. 150 |
| Online Gaming | p. 154 |
| The Big Day: The Wedding | p. 155 |
| The Guest: When You Are Invited | p. 156 |
| The Groom | p. 161 |
| Other Manly Roles at a Wedding | p. 165 |
| On the Job | |
| Top Three Issues for Work Life | p. 171 |
| The Three Most Annoying Issues in Work Life | p. 171 |
| Things Men Do Well in Work Life | p. 175 |
| Business Runs on Relationships | p. 176 |
| How Others See You | p. 177 |
| Coping with Layoffs | p. 177 |
| Five Cardinal Rules for your Job Interview | p. 179 |
| Don't Be Late | p. 179 |
| Be Prepared | p. 180 |
| Dress One Notch Up | p. 181 |
| Smile, Speak Clearly, and Look Your Interviewer in the Eye | p. 182 |
| Thank Them Twice | p. 182 |
| Five Interview Questions You Should Be Prepared to Answer | p. 184 |
| Five Questions to Ask During an Interview | p. 184 |
| Beware Your Online Presence | p. 185 |
| Building Better Relationships | p. 186 |
| Negative Behaviors Hurt Relationships | p. 187 |
| Choosing to Get Along | p. 192 |
| Office Communications | p. 193 |
| Face-to-Face | p. 194 |
| Business Phone Etiquette | p. 197 |
| Voice Mail | p. 200 |
| The Cell/Smartphone | p. 201 |
| p. 202 | |
| Letters and Memos | p. 203 |
| Everyday Business Manners | p. 204 |
| Gender-Neutral Business | p. 204 |
| Around the Office | p. 205 |
| Hygiene | p. 209 |
| Clothing | p. 210 |
| Business Social Events | p. 213 |
| The Business Social Mixer | p. 214 |
| The Business Meal | p. 218 |
| Afterword | p. 221 |
| Acknowledgments | p. 223 |
| Index | p. 224 |
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ISBN: 9780062080417
ISBN-10: 0062080415
Published: 8th May 2012
Format: Paperback
Language: English
Number of Pages: 256
Audience: General Adult
Publisher: HarperCollins Publishers
Country of Publication: US
Edition Number: 2
Dimensions (cm): 21.1 x 14.7 x 1.8
Weight (kg): 0.24
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