Welcome to Sex : Your no-silly-questions guide to sexuality, pleasure and figuring it out - Melissa Kang

Welcome to Sex

Your no-silly-questions guide to sexuality, pleasure and figuring it out

By: Melissa Kang, Yumi Stynes, Jenny Latham (Illustrator)

Paperback | 17 May 2023 | Edition Number 1

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Welcome to Sex is a frank, age-appropriate introductory guide to sex and sexuality for teens of all genders, from the creators of the best-selling guides Welcome to Your Period, Welcome to Consent and Welcome to Your Boobs.

There’s no denying it sex can be pretty tricky ... and talking about sex can feel weird and so uncomfortable. But it doesn't have to be that way!

This little book is packed with honest advice on everything you need to know about sex: how to know when you're ready and reasons not to have sex, exploring pleasure on your own to becoming sexually intimate with others, contraception and staying safe, how to communicate about sex, wobbly starts and awkward moments (including talking to your parents about sex).

Welcome to Sex is inclusive, reassuring and all about keeping sex fun, real, and shame-free. With case studies, first-person accounts and questions from real teens, Welcome to Sex will help readers navigate their sexual debuts with confidence!

Contents:
  • What Is Sex?
  • Parents And Carers And Awkward Conversations
  • Getting Intimate With Myself
  • Orgasms
  • Labels: Sexual And Gender Identities
  • What The Outside World Is Telling Us About Sex
  • Myths About Sex
  • Reasons To Not Have Sex
  • How It Begins: Feelings, Flirting And Falling In Love
  • What Can Actually Happen With Another Person?
  • Wobbly Starts
  • Relationships
  • Looking After Myself And My Partner
  • Pregnancy Lowdown
  • Awkward Sex Moments And Other Challenges
  • Is Something Wrong?
  • Keeping Safe
About the Authors

Most people know Dr Melissa Kang as the longest-serving expert behind the iconic Dolly Doctor column, but she's also a practising medical doctor for marginalised young people and has academic roles at the University of Technology Sydney and the University of Sydney. She is fifth-generation Malaysian-Chinese Anglo-Australian, which makes specialising in adolescent sexuality and sexual health all the more interesting. She continues to speak about these topics in the mainstream media.

Together with Yumi Stynes, she has co-authored books in their best-selling Welcome To series: Welcome to Your Period, Welcome to Consent and Welcome to Your Boobs.

Yumi Stynes is a writer, broadcaster, television presenter, food fanatic, fitness enthusiast and mother-of-four - including two teenage girls. Among her daily responsibilities she presents a national radio show on the KIIS network called The 3pm Pickup. She also hosts an ABC podcast about women's health called Ladies, We Need to Talk. The podcast focuses on female sexuality and social issues and is known for its directness and taboo-breaking conversations.

Yumi presented an SBS documentary called 'Is Australia Sexist?', has given keynote speeches at Dark Mofo Festival of Dangerous Ideas, Department of Rural Health Sexual Health Conference, The Australian Women's Leadership Symposium, One of One International Women's Day Conference and was the fearless MC at the 2019 Women's March in Sydney. She has written cookbooks (Zero F*cks Cooking and Endless Summer) and has co-authored the best-selling Welcome To series: Welcome to Your Period, Welcome to Consent and Welcome to Your Boobs.
Industry Reviews

'A fearless, frank and important resource for young people, Welcome to Sex is meticulously researched and comprehensive in its representation of sex and sexual experience. The text is very inclusive in its language and the content can be read by all young adults regardless of sexual orientation, identity, gender or culture. Kang and Stynes’s combined voice is warm, friendly and approachable—brooking no awkward silences in what can be a difficult conversation between young people and adults ... An informative, entertaining, and potentially life-saving book that should find a place in every home (even ones that don’t contain a teenager).' –Judges' comments, Prime Minister's Literary Awards

Welcome to Sex [offers] comprehensive information, alongside playful illustrations and a welcoming tone of acceptance, providing better relationships and sexuality education than most of us ever had.’ – Sydney Morning Herald

‘When I saw the kerfuffle about Welcome to Sex [online], the first thing I did was go online and order a copy for my children. I'll let them read it, and I'll talk to them about what they've learned, and what questions they may have. Porn will not be the only sex education my children have … sex is fun and healthy and normal, and that they have every right to decide what happens to their own bodies.’ –Nine Honey

‘It’s a glorious thing that a book like this exists.’ –Pedestrian

Welcome to Sex [reached] the top of the Amazon charts on Thursday, two months after its release on May 17. It overtook global hits such as Rebecca Kuang’s Yellowface and James Clear’s Atomic Habits and has also temporarily sold out on Amazon.’ –Sydney Morning Herald 

‘The moment the internet was easily accessible on handheld devices, our children lost their innocence, and what control parents had over their kids was diminished … Welcome To Sex, to me, seems like a healthy book for a parent to have on their shelves.’ –Geelong Advertiser

‘Stynes and Kang's book treats sex as something natural to be enjoyed, and it treats its readers like real people. [Young people] are going to have sex, and if the adults in their lives are only going to talk about birth control – or refuse to discuss sex at all – then they will learn from unrealistic and awful depictions in porn and on social media. A book offering unashamed answers therefore sounds like a handy aid. After it skyrocketed up bestseller lists, it seems plenty of families agree.’ – Herald Sun

'A brilliant and accessible book … Giving young people information about their bodies, their emerging sexuality, how to understand and communicate in intimate relationships, is vital. Sexual abusers and predators [rely] on shame to silence them. The more information we can give children and teenagers about their bodies, and how eventually to form consensual intimate relationships in age- appropriate ways, the better.’ –The Age
 
‘This is such an important book for all of us. It is the essence of what a good non-fiction book should be all about. Accurate, reliable, and accessible information and advice about an issue that is so important to young people. Dr Melissa Kang and Yumi Stynes provide advice in a non-judgemental and well-written style that resonates with teenagers and young adults. If you are looking for an educational, accessible and accurate source of information on this important topic then this is the book. This information is way more accurate and reliable than anything your mates will tell you at the shops or on Facebook.’ –Indie Book Awards


'The book covers some really important ground. It discusses what sex is, why people have it and the reasons not to have it. It recognises both abusive and coercive behaviours, why and how to talk to one’s parents about it and informed consent. The book encourages kids not to have sex until they are ready. The book outlines how to say no. It states in no uncertain terms how young is too young.' –Honourable Peter Foster, Member of Parliament, Western Australia

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