| Acknowledgments | p. xi |
| Preface | p. xiii |
| Prologue | |
| Early Relationships and Their Internalization | p. 3 |
| Some Caveats | |
| Relationship with Mother | |
| Relationship with Father | |
| Relationship with the Parental Couple | |
| Relationship with Siblings | |
| Relationship with Grandparents | |
| Relationship with Animals | |
| Relationship with the Inanimate Surround | |
| Other Important Relationships | |
| From Interaction to Internalization | |
| Concluding Remarks | |
| Structure and Dynamics | |
| The Mad Core | p. 33 |
| Hereditary and Constitutional Factors | |
| Environmental Contributions | |
| The Role of Fantasy | |
| Technical Implications | |
| Concluding Remarks | |
| The Schizoid Wish to Die and be Reborn | p. 49 |
| Some Caveats | |
| The Wish To Die, Vanish, and Not-Be | |
| The Wish to be Reborn and to Start All Over Again | |
| A Brief Digression into the Concept of the Death Instinct | |
| Back to the Clinical Realm | |
| Issues of Technique | |
| Concluding Remarks | |
| Three Fantasies Related to Unresolved Separation-Individuation | p. 67 |
| Developmental Origins of Severe Personality Disorders | |
| Some Caveats | |
| "Someday ... " and "If Only ... " Fantasies | |
| The Fantasy of a Tether | |
| The Fantasy of a Long Embrace | |
| Concluding Remarks | |
| Lies, Liars, and Lying | p. 87 |
| The Structure of a Lie | |
| Motivations for Lying | |
| The World of Forgery | |
| Back to the Clinical Realm | |
| Concluding Remarks | |
| Narcissistic Love Relations | p. 99 |
| Narcissism and Romantic Love | |
| Narcissism and Sexuality | |
| Narcissism and Marriage | |
| Concluding Remarks | |
| Holding and Healing | |
| The Analyst's Office | p. 113 |
| Attributes of the Office: Location, Comfort, Authenticity, Constancy | |
| The Waiting Room | |
| Contents of the Office: The Couch, Other Physical Objects | |
| Technical Implications | |
| Concluding Remarks | |
| Listening | p. 135 |
| Between Hearing and Understanding | |
| What Do We Listen To and How? | |
| Variables That Can Alter Listening | |
| Not Listening as a Technical Intervention | |
| Concluding Remarks | |
| Making Interventions | p. 147 |
| Preparatory Interventions | |
| Nonverbal Interventions | |
| Affirmative Interventions | |
| Interpretive Interventions | |
| Reconstructive Interventions | |
| Developmental Interventions | |
| Miscellaneous Interventions | |
| Specific Clinical Challenges | |
| Concluding Remarks | |
| Epilogue | |
| Three Pillars of Therapeutic Attitude | p. 171 |
| Some Caveats | |
| Survival | |
| Vision | |
| Faith | |
| Concluding Remarks | |
| Notes | p. 187 |
| References | p. 197 |
| Index | p. 223 |
| About the Author | p. 229 |
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