What Remains?

âSharp, angry, punchily philosophical and often funny. It basically invents a new type of lifestyle aspiration: deathstyle.â The Times

âCallenderâs joyous, thought-provoking book is an account of how his own early encounters with bereavement led to him becoming a new kind of undertaker.â Daily Mail

âThis book is a great work of craft and beauty.â Salena Godden

âI loved What Remains? Funny, demystifying, but mostly, deeply moving.â Kathy Burke, Actor and Director

âThis compelling personal story of a pioneering punk undertaker is a moving revelation.â Love Reading

âInspiring and unforgettable.â John Higgs, author of William Blake vs the World

Death has shown me . . . the unbreakable core of love and courage that lies at the heart of what it means to be human.

Ru Callender wanted to become an undertaker in order to offer people a more honest experience than the stilted formality of traditional âVictorianâ funerals. Driven by raw emotion and the unresolved grief of losing his own parents, Ru brought an outsider, âDIYâ ethos to the business of death, combined with the kinship and inspiration he found in rave culture, social outlaws and political nonconformists.

Ru has carried coffins across windswept beaches, sat in pubs with caskets on beer-stained tables, helped children fire flaming arrows into their fatherâs funeral pyre, turned modern occult rituals into performance art and, with the band members of the KLF, is building the Peopleâs Pyramid of bony bricks in Liverpool â" all in the name of creating truly authentic experiences that celebrate those who are no longer here and those who remain.

Radical, poignant, unflinchingly real and laugh-aloud funny, What Remains? will change the way you think about life, death and the human experience.