| Acknowledgments | p. xi |
| Introduction | p. xiii |
| Making the Most of Your Thirty-Year Life Bonus | p. 1 |
| An Unexpected Challenge | p. 2 |
| The Need for a New Model | p. 3 |
| New Discoveries about Adult Options and Aging | p. 4 |
| The Alternative to Middle-Aging: Second Growth | p. 9 |
| Six Paradoxical Principles of Second Growth | p. 12 |
| The Dawn of a Third Age | p. 17 |
| Shredding Old Scripts That Block Second Growth | p. 18 |
| How Long Can This Go On? | p. 19 |
| Principle One: Balancing Mindful Reflection and Risk Taking | p. 23 |
| The Surprising Appearance of Second Growth | p. 23 |
| Getting Started | p. 26 |
| A Paradox of Mixed Messages | p. 29 |
| Keeping Going | p. 32 |
| Taking the First Paradoxical Step | p. 33 |
| Looking Ahead to a More Abundant Future | p. 44 |
| Principle Two: Developing Realistic Optimism | p. 47 |
| Addressing the Dilemma of Optimism and Realism | p. 47 |
| What Realistic Optimism Means | p. 50 |
| Getting a Little Help from Your Friends | p. 52 |
| Gaining Self-Confidence by Asserting What You Want | p. 56 |
| Planning for Purpose | p. 58 |
| Utilizing Detours | p. 62 |
| Growing a Sense of Humor | p. 65 |
| Taking Charge of Your Life | p. 67 |
| Strategies for Realistic Optimism | p. 70 |
| Principle Three: Creating a Positive Third-Age Identity | p. 73 |
| Why Think About Identity at This Late Date? | p. 73 |
| Detecting and Dislodging the Stereotypes of Age | p. 76 |
| Building a Post-Institutional Identity | p. 79 |
| Letting Your Youth Catch Up with Your Age | p. 83 |
| The Paradox of Growing Older/Growing Young | p. 87 |
| The Paradox of Gender | p. 92 |
| Principle Four: Redefining Our Work/Balancing Work and Play | p. 97 |
| Coping with Permanent White Water | p. 97 |
| Recovering a Sense of Meaningful Work and Play | p. 99 |
| Finding Work Not Listed in the Classified Ads | p. 101 |
| Striking a Balance Between Work and Play | p. 118 |
| Trading In Retirement for a Better Option | p. 122 |
| Finding Meaning in the Paradox of Work and Play | p. 127 |
| Principle Five: Balancing Personal Freedom and Intimacy | p. 129 |
| Liberation One More Time--Greater Freedom after Fifty | p. 129 |
| A New Kind of Marriage--Intimate Interdependence | p. 138 |
| Freedom and Friendships | p. 146 |
| Principle Six: Building a More Caring Life | p. 151 |
| Increasing Our Capacity to Care | p. 151 |
| Finding Meaning Through an Expansion of Caring | p. 153 |
| A Caregiver Learns Self-Care | p. 156 |
| Lust for Life: Caring for Optimal Physical Health | p. 163 |
| Caring for Our Material Well-Being | p. 166 |
| Caring for the Earth: An Ecological Spirituality | p. 166 |
| Leading to a More Caring Society | p. 168 |
| It's Your Life After All: Stepping into More Purposeful Living | p. 171 |
| Designing Your Own Living Mosaic | p. 171 |
| Creating a Balance among Multiple Commitments | p. 173 |
| The Invitation of a Lifetime | p. 196 |
| Afterword: On the Meaning of the Third Age | p. 199 |
| An Era of Social Discontinuity | p. 199 |
| Creating an Objective Correlative within the Third Age | p. 202 |
| Notes | p. 207 |
| Index | p. 229 |
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