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On a sunny May afternoon in Silver Spring, Maryland, Yaffa Klugerman's 14-year-old son, Dov, crossed the street from his school to his home and was hit by a car. He was rushed to the hospital, where Yaffa and her husband, Tzvi, immediately learned that their son had sustained a non-survivable injury. After nine agonizing days in the hospital, Dov succumbed to his injuries, and his parents were left to somehow go on living along with their four surviving children. Their close-knit Orthodox Jewish family and community would make valiant efforts to help--but how could the Klugermans ever move forward? In this memoir, Yaffa Klugerman explores the harrowing experience of the accident and Dov's time in the hospital, as well as her crisis of faith in the year following his death. It is a raw, vulnerable, and authentic view into an unimaginable tragedy and the power of hope and ultimate healing that followed.
Industry Reviews
This book is very personal and very real. It brings us close to the experience of losing a child, and all of the heartbreak that entails. It is also a book of grappling with faith and finding hope in the midst of darkness-an important book for anyone who has lost a child or knows someone who has.
Sherri Mandell, author of "The Blessing of a Broken Heart" and Director of the Koby Mandell Foundation
No greater love, no greater loss, no greater challenge: A mother's journey from despair to transcendence, harrowingly experienced, beautifully told.
Tova Reich, author, most recently of "The House of Love and Prayer and Other Stories"
Memoirs of a child's death are often a recounting of facts, a litany that must be verified on the page for the parent author to believe their impossible truth. In "The Broken Vase," Yaffa Klugerman's exploration of her firstborn son's death and its impact on her family and her deeply-held faith, the true purpose of memoir is revealed. Yaffa mines the depth of her experience as a Jew, a wife, and a bereaved mother to paint a shimmering portrait of an existence in complete disarray as she questions everything she knows and believes. She arrives at her explored truths in ways that leave her both brittle and soft, but retaining her unique traits: intelligent, spiritual, mindful and reflective, attuned to her surviving family, her relationship with God, and with her son Dov ever nearby.
Gabriella Burman, author of "Michaela"
In her heart wrenching and deeply personal book, "The Broken Vase," Yaffa Klugerman powerfully and poignantly describes the shattering pain that those of us who have lost children on the roads experience and the courageous steps we must take to rebuild even as we remember. Yaffa's journey is one of courage, resilience and inspiration. Her words offer solace, strength, and a reminder that even in our deepest sorrow, hope and healing are possible.
Rochelle Sobel, President, Association for Safe International Road Travel
Author's Note ix
Preface xi
Part 1
Chapter 1
Wednesday, May 31, 2006, 4:15 pm 15
Chapter 2
Spring 1999 19
Chapter 3
Wednesday, May 31, 2006, 4:35 pm 25
Chapter 4
Life on Arcola 30
Chapter 5
Thursday, June 1, 2006, 5:00 am 35
Chapter 6
February 2006: Dov's Yeshiva 41
Chapter 7
Thursday, June 1, 2006, 3:00 pm 45
Chapter 8
Friday morning, June 2, 2006 50
Chapter 9
Friday afternoon, June 2, 2006 54
Chapter 10
August 1988 59
Chapter 11
Saturday night, June 3, 2006 64
Chapter 12
Sunday afternoon, June 4, 2006 68
Chapter 13
Spiritual Healing 72
Chapter 14
Monday morning, June 5, 2006 79
Chapter 15
Tuesday, June 6, 2006, 5:30 am 84
Chapter 16
Wednesday, June 7, 2006 88
Chapter 17
Tel Aviv, 1986 91
Chapter 18
Thursday morning, June 8, 2006 96
Chapter 19
Thursday afternoon, June 8, 2006 100
Chapter 20
Friday, June 9, 2006 105
Part 2
Chapter 21
Shiva 121
Chapter 22
The Driver 128
Chapter 23
The Bris 132
Chapter 24
Dov's Birth 136
Chapter 25
Grief 139
Chapter 26
The Binder 144
Chapter 27
Finding Meaning 149
Chapter 28
The Paper Bag 152
Chapter 29
Another Accident 154
Chapter 30
Virginia Beach 161
Chapter 31
Losing Faith 164
Chapter 32
Miracles 172
Chapter 33
Grief Therapy 176
Chapter 34
Philadelphia 181
Chapter 35
Philadelphia 184
Chapter 36
The Question 190
Chapter 37
Mikvah 193
Chapter 38
Yankees Game 197
Chapter 39
High Holidays 199
Chapter 40
Sukkot 211
Chapter 41
Bereavement Retreat 214
Chapter 42
The Pregnancy 220
Chapter 43
Dark Humor 223
Chapter 44
Guilt 225
Chapter 45
The Robbery 227
Chapter 46
The Trial 230
Chapter 47
Pesach 240
Chapter 48
Dovie's Room 243
Chapter 49
The Unveiling 246
Chapter 50
The Torah Dedication 252
Chapter 51
Yahrtzeit 260
Chapter 52
The Light 266
Epilogue 269
Glossary
ISBN: 9781964754321
ISBN-10: 1964754321
Published: 18th May 2025
Format: Hardcover
Language: English
Number of Pages: 288
Audience: General Adult
Publisher: Storytellers Publishing
Dimensions (cm): 21.6 x 14.0 x 2.06
Weight (kg): 0.47
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