Never Simple : A Memoir - Liz Scheier

Never Simple

A Memoir

By: Liz Scheier

Hardcover | 30 August 2022

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This gripping and darkly funny memoir âis a testament to the undeniable, indestructible love between a mother and a daughterâ (Isaac Mizrahi).

Liz Scheierâs mother was a news junkie, a hilarious storyteller, a fast-talking charmer you couldnât look away from, a single mother whose devotion crossed the line into obsession, andâ"when in the grips of the mental illness that plagued herâ"a masterful liar. On an otherwise uneventful afternoon when Scheier was eighteen, her mother sauntered into the room and dropped two bombshells. First, that she had been married for most of the previous two decades to a man Liz had never heard of and, second, that the man she had claimed was Lizâs dead father was entirely fictional. Sheâd made him upâ"his name, the stories, everything.

Those big lies were the start, but not the end; it had taken dozens of smaller lies to support them, and by the time she was done she had built a fairy-tale, half-true life for the two of them. Judith Scheierâs charm was more than matched by her eccentricity, and Liz had always known there was something wrong in their home. After all, other mothers didnât raise a child single-handedly with no visible source of income, or hide their children behind fake Social Security numbers, or host giant parties in a one-bedroom Manhattan apartment only to throw raging tantrums when the door closed behind the guests.

Now, decades later, armed with clues to her fatherâs identityâ"and as her motherâs worsening dementia reveals truths she never intended to shareâ"Liz attempts to uncover the real answers to the mysteries underpinning her childhood. Trying to construct a ânormalâ life out of decidedly abnormal roots, she navigates her own circuitous path to adulthood: a bizarre breakup, an unexpected romance, and the birth of her son and daughter. Along the way, Liz wrestles with questions of what we owe our parents even when they fail us, and of how to share her motherâs hilarity, limitless love, and creativity with childrenâ"without passing down the trauma of her mental illness. Never Simple is the story of enduring the legacy of a hard-to-love parent with compassion, humor, and, ultimately, self-preservation.

Industry Reviews

"Scheier...debuts with a stunning and generous account of living with her mother's mental illness...Readers will find it hard to part with this one."
--Publishers Weekly, *starred*

"Liz Scheier's beautiful book is a testament to the undeniable, indestructible love between a mother and a daughter. In telling her story she brings enormous sympathy to an exceedingly complicated relationship, and thus a clearer understanding for all of us with mothers. It's a meditation on the subject of how much fear and dread can be tolerated by a loving heart. I adored it."
--Isaac Mizrahi

"The complexities of a mother/daughter relationship are laid bare in this darkly funny, and utterly shattering memoir. Liz Scheier writes with shocking beauty and grace, never once turning her back on the truth. Never Simple is a brilliant, triumphant debut by a writer of significant literary talent."
--Augusten Burroughs, author of Running With Scissors and Toil & Trouble

"Possibly the most brilliant, evocative, devastating memoir of what it is like to be the daughter of a mother with Borderline Personality Disorder, Liz Scheier's story is also one of resilience and compassion. The questions it asks are ones that every surviving adult child of a profoundly mentally ill parent grapples with: how strong is the maternal thread that enables the survivor to care for an abusive mother even when they become a danger to their world and everyone in it? Is it possible for those left behind to ever heal? Staggering, at turns horrifying and life-giving, Never Simple left me gasping for breath."
--Elissa Altman, author of Motherland

"A riveting and poignant memoir of lies, compassion, and discovery. I couldn't put it down."
--Jenny Lawson, New York Times bestselling author of Broken, Furiously Happy, and Let's Pretend This Never Happened

"[Never Simple] recounts an improbably complicated life courtesy of an eccentric, mentally ill mother...[D]ark humor...abounds throughout the narrative...[D]rama on every page, punctuated by shrewd wit."
--Kirkus Reviews

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