| Preface | p. ix |
| Understanding Mediation | p. 1 |
| The Potential of Mediation | p. 2 |
| Defining mediation | p. 3 |
| The benefits of mediating managers | p. 5 |
| Interactive mediation | p. 7 |
| Applications of mediation | p. 11 |
| The Cost and Value of Conflict | p. 12 |
| Choices for managers | p. 13 |
| Conflict management styles | p. 13 |
| Why is conflict so rampant at work? | p. 15 |
| The cost of conflict | p. 19 |
| The positive potential of conflict | p. 20 |
| The Mediation Approach | p. 24 |
| The conflict zone | p. 27 |
| Case study: A manager getting out of the conflict zone | p. 29 |
| Rapport: At the heart of mediation skills | p. 32 |
| Taking the blame out of interactions | p. 33 |
| Case study: Giving people a chance to step back | p. 34 |
| Taking the adversity out of diversity | p. 36 |
| Case study: We're not racist but... | p. 38 |
| Key qualities of mediators | p. 39 |
| Encouraging people to mediate | p. 40 |
| Case study: "He'll never listen" | p. 42 |
| Case study: "I simply don't have the time" | p. 43 |
| Mediation in Action | p. 47 |
| A Map of the Process | p. 48 |
| The sequence of mediation | p. 49 |
| The mediation dynamic | p. 51 |
| Case study: Mediation at first sight | p. 53 |
| Working with the Parties Separately | p. 58 |
| Case study: Environmental Projects | p. 58 |
| Setting the scene and building rapport | p. 61 |
| Reflective listening | p. 63 |
| Getting people outside their conflict zone | p. 72 |
| Encouraging people to mediate | p. 75 |
| Impartiality | p. 79 |
| A Joint Mediation Session | p. 85 |
| Stage 3: Assessment and setting up a joint meeting | p. 85 |
| Preparing the parties | p. 86 |
| Preparing the venue | p. 87 |
| Stages 4 and 5: Setting the scene, exploring and working on the issues | p. 89 |
| Conversation management | p. 90 |
| Setting the scene and building rapport | p. 92 |
| Structuring the interaction | p. 94 |
| Controlling the interaction | p. 97 |
| Facilitation | p. 102 |
| Moving On | p. 106 |
| Stage 6: Building agreements and relationships; and Stage 7: Closure | p. 107 |
| Creating a safe space for exchange of information, feelings, and perceptions | p. 108 |
| Keeping it safe, keeping things moving | p. 111 |
| Generating and assessing options | p. 115 |
| Closing on the issues | p. 119 |
| Firming up agreements | p. 120 |
| Closing on the interaction and the process | p. 120 |
| Mediating a High-Conflict Situation | p. 122 |
| Case study: Ozone | p. 122 |
| Ripeness for mediation | p. 123 |
| Sorting the issues into what can and can't be taken forward | p. 124 |
| Managing anger and aggression | p. 129 |
| Advanced facilitation | p. 136 |
| Using Mediation for Group Disputes | p. 141 |
| Case study: A team on the point of collapse | p. 142 |
| Neutral assessment | p. 143 |
| Building a safe, collaborative environment | p. 148 |
| Facilitating a collaborative process of resolution | p. 150 |
| Equality routines | p. 152 |
| Tips for inter-group disputes | p. 154 |
| Day-to-Day Mediation Skills | p. 159 |
| Maintaining Dialogue under Pressure | p. 160 |
| Case study: Creating a performance management dialogue using conversation management | p. 160 |
| Case study: Managing a very difficult customer by defusing aggression and needs-based problem solving | p. 167 |
| Responding Constructively to the "Isms" | p. 171 |
| Case study: Tackling the office sexist | p. 172 |
| Case study: Managing a sudden racist outburst | p. 179 |
| Investigating Sensitive Issues | p. 183 |
| Finding out or coming out with findings? | p. 184 |
| What makes a good investigator? | p. 185 |
| Case study: Is this bullying? | p. 186 |
| Interviewing the complainant | p. 188 |
| A formal investigation | p. 195 |
| Getting Mediation into Your Organization | p. 202 |
| Assessing the impact of conflict | p. 203 |
| When is mediation appropriate? | p. 206 |
| Building mediation into your organization | p. 208 |
| Case study: Training staff in mediation skills | p. 209 |
| Case study: Establishing a colleague support network | p. 210 |
| Case study: Building a mediation capacity into existing welfare provision | p. 211 |
| Best practice for in-house mediators | p. 213 |
| Evaluating mediation | p. 218 |
| Materials for a Workplace Mediation Service | p. 221 |
| Sample intake form | p. 222 |
| Sample mediator's case assessment form | p. 223 |
| Sample information for parties going through mediation | p. 224 |
| Mediation party evaluation questionnaire | p. 226 |
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