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How Not To F*cking Hate People! - Jeffrey Alan

How Not To F*cking Hate People!

By: Jeffrey Alan

Paperback | 20 November 2025

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How Not To F*cking Hate People!

And Maybe, Accidentally, Make the World Suck Less

A brutally honest and unexpectedly funny guide to surviving modern humanity without losing your soul.

What if kindness wasn't weakness-but the most radical act of strength?

How Not to F*cking Hate People! is a sharp, heartfelt, and darkly funny guide to staying human in an age that seems engineered to make us hate each other.

Every day feels like another test of patience. From traffic jams and toxic workplaces to endless online arguments, it's never been easier to lose faith in people. But what if the answer isn't to give up on humanity-but to understand it better?

Jeffrey Alan takes an unfiltered look at how outrage became our default setting-and how to reset it. Through honest, witty, and deeply compassionate vignettes, he explores the small, radical choices that help us navigate a divided world with humor, empathy, and grace.

This isn't a self-help book that preaches perfection or toxic positivity. It's a field guide for people who feel everything too deeply and are tired of letting that turn into cynicism. It's about finding calm in chaos, decency in dysfunction, and light when the world keeps handing you matches.

Because the truth is simple: you can't control the world, but you can control how you meet it.

For fans of The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck and Unfuk Yourself, How Not to F*cking Hate People! blends humor, insight, and humanity to remind us that kindness isn't na¯ve-it's rebellion with a heartbeat.

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