Even Generals Take Out The Garbage

This book teaches children that everyone does chores. As you read this book with your child, make sure the child understands the chores you and other members of the family do. Here are some more hints to make children's chores less of a burden and more a part of family life:

When children do chores, they are benefited in may ways.

• They gain a sense of responsibility.
• Completing tasks improves their self esteem.
• They learn the value of work and teamwork.
• They learn life skills that will serve them their whole lives.
• They gain an understanding of the effort it takes to maintain a clean, orderly home.

Getting children to do chores can feel like an uphill battle. However, with the right approach, it can eventually become a smooth and even enjoyable process. Some things that help children learn to do chores are:

• Setting expectations at an early age.
• Make sure to frame the chores and a natural part of life and not a punishment.
• Make the chores fun. Turn tasks into games, such as "Who can clean their rooms the fastest?". Add music to focus energy and attention.
• Make a reward system such as stickers. Keep in mind it is important to emphasize the intrinsic value of completing chores, such as "Isn't it nice to play in a clean room."
• Lead by example. Make sure you frame things you do around the house as chores, "This morning I have three chores: Make breakfast, do the dishes, and sweep the kitchen." Show a positive attitude about housework.
• Give children a sense of control over their work. Let them pick what to do first, or when to start the chore.

Eventually, children will see chores as a part of family life, and not as a burden.