Get Free Shipping on orders over $0
Desire : The Longings Inside Us and the New Science of How We Love, Heal, and Grow - Jay Stringer
eTextbook alternate format product

Instant online reading.
Don't wait for delivery!

Go digital and save!

Desire

The Longings Inside Us and the New Science of How We Love, Heal, and Grow

By: Jay Stringer

Hardcover | 3 March 2026

At a Glance

Hardcover


$53.75

or 4 interest-free payments of $13.44 with

 or 

Ships in 5 to 10 business days

Why do the things you want almost always seem out of reach?

Drawing on a new study of 4,000 people, renowned therapist and award-winning author Jay Stringer reveals how desire-the most powerful and misunderstood force in our lives-shapes everything: who we love, what we chase, and the life we create.

Desire drives our search for intimacy, meaning, and joy-but it can also lead to shame, betrayal, and self-sabotage. Too often we silence it, distort it, or treat surface-level symptoms like loneliness, low desire, or porn use-without listening to what our longings are really telling us.

In Desire, Stringer shows how to decode those clues and transform your story. Drawing on unforgettable stories from his clinical practice-individuals and couples navigating everything from childhood scars to purity culture, professional exhaustion to sexual difficulties, codependency to self-doubt-he shows you how to ask the questions you've been avoiding and move toward the healing you didn't know how to seek.

This book doesn't offer quick fixes. Through deep compassion and research, it offers something far more powerful: the invitation to approach your desires with curiosity, so you can stop unhealthy patterns and begin building a life of connection, purpose, and love.

More in Dating, Relationships, Living Together & Marriage

Ex's and No's : The Breakup Advice You Don't Want to Hear - Cole Zesiger
Love Stories - Trent Dalton

Hardcover

RRP $34.99

$28.75

18%
OFF
Fight Right : How Successful Couples Turn Conflict into Connection - Dr John Gottman
It's Not You : How to Identify and Heal from NARCISSISTIC People - Ramani Durvasula PhD
Love Is Letting Go of Fear, Third Edition - Gerald Jampolsky

RRP $24.99

$21.75

13%
OFF
How to Piss Off Men : 109 Things to Say to Shatter the Male Ego - Kyle Prue
The Pocket To the One I  Love : Gemini Pockets - Gemini Books
No More MR Nice Guy - Robert A. Glover

$38.75