Compassion for Couples

Building the Skills of Loving Connection

By: Michelle Becker

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Hardcover | 10 January 2023 | Edition Number 1

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276 Pages

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How resilient is your relationship? Do you and your partner go into "reactivity mode" when a conflict arises? Do you wish you were closer and more connected? We all need healthy, secure relationships in order to thrive--but they can be hard to build and maintain. Where do you start? According to marriage and family therapist Michelle Becker, the answer is with yourself. By learning to practice self-compassion, you are better able to respond to your partner with love and acceptance--even when they inevitably cannot meet your every need. This caring and insightful guide shows you how to stop defaulting to feelings of annoyance, disappointment, or detachment. Instead, using techniques from Becker's renowned Compassion for Couples program (plus guided meditation practices with accompanying audio downloads) you will learn mindfulness, compassion, and other skills that bring you closer to your partner and enrich your lives together. For happy couples looking to strengthen their relationship, or those facing obstacles, Becker leads the way to greater trust, mutual understanding, and a renewed sense of warmth.

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"This beautiful book will help couples move their relationships from a place of pain and blame to love and acceptance. Drawing on empirically supported self-compassion practices, the author provides concrete tools to help people open their hearts to themselves so they can open fully to their partners."--Kristin Neff, PhD, coauthor of The Mindful Self-Compassion Workbook "Michelle Becker is the therapist any couple would be lucky to find when they hit a rough spot--she is wise, practical and without judgment. Compassion for Coupleswill transform your relationship."--Susan M. Pollak, MTS, EdD, author of Self-Compassion for Parents "From her vast experience as a therapist and teacher, Michelle Becker has written a masterpiece for any couple, whether you are seeking greater intimacy or help with serious conflicts. Her advice is grounded in science, with lots of examples and many simple, powerful exercises. Beautiful, timely, and important."--Rick Hanson, PhD, author of Resilient "We would all like to have relationships that are constantly supportive, empathic, and fun--but, unfortunately, things don't always work out that way. Having compassion for each other allows us to resolve conflicts, face disappointments, accept compromise, and learn the arts of apology and forgiveness. For anyone interested in building relationships based on courage, wisdom, and deep friendship, this is an ideal, inspiring guide."--Paul Gilbert, PhD, FBPsS, OBE, author of The Compassionate Mind "This book is designed to help couples heal and thrive. Compassion does both. Compassion is a positive emotion. It brings energy and happiness into our lives. Therefore, when we wrap ourselves and our partners in compassion, suffering is transformed into something different, even into joy. It's like alchemy, but it has to be personally experienced to be understood. Please go ahead and try, and see what happens in your own relationship."--from the Foreword by Christopher Germer, PhD, coauthor of The Mindful Self-Compassion Workbook-

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