"This wise, readable book finally rectifies the psychoanalytic community's shameful inattention to - and devaluation of - psychotherapy with aging patients. As we boomers confront a life phase for which neither the dominant culture nor our countercultural ideologies prepared us, we look to psychotherapists for help (after all, one of our generation's achievements was to destigmatize therapy). But before Schaffer's contribution, otherwise well-trained psychoanalytic clinicians were ill-equipped to help us face the challenges, losses, and insults of getting old - not to mention its gratifications and rewards. All therapists should read this scholarly, insightful, clinically invaluable work." - Nancy McWilliams, PhD, ABPP, Rutgers University Graduate School of Applied & Professional Psychology
"Amy Schaffer's new book is a distinctive contribution to a frequently overlooked area-working psychoanalytically with the older adult. Schaffer convincingly challenges the agism inherent in the assumption that older patients are unable to engage in deep psychoanalytic work. She points to the limitations inherent in aging-choices have been made and cannot be un-made-yet reminds us of how much can nevertheless be done. Addressing a range of issues relevant to clinical work in general and aging in particular, Schaffer's book is book in rich with clinical experience and wisdom. A must-read for all of us." - Joyce Slochower, PhD, NYU Postdoctoral Program
"This seminal book is a welcome arrival that counters the psychoanalytic bias against the elderly concerning their potential for growth and change. Schaffer does not minimize the pain of aging. In fact, she deepens our appreciation for the ways in which physical, cognitive and emotional losses of later life impact the self. What is remarkable is her ability to acknowledge the reality of her patients' experience while also helping them to know themselves better and find ways to grow. Her clinical illustrations expose the false dichotomy between supportive therapy and deep work, reflecting a humanity that is inspiring. Schaffer's voice has the potential to empower the therapist of aging patients who encounters their plight with a sense of helplessness and despair." - Martin Stephen Frommer, PhD, Faculty, Stephen Mitchell Relational Study Center, Associate Editor, Psychoanalytic Dialogues
"This wise, readable book finally rectifies the psychoanalytic community's shameful inattention to - and devaluation of - psychotherapy with aging patients. As we boomers confront a life phase for which neither the dominant culture nor our countercultural ideologies prepared us, we look to psychotherapists for help (after all, one of our generation's achievements was to destigmatize therapy). But before Schaffer's contribution, otherwise well-trained psychoanalytic clinicians were ill-equipped to help us face the challenges, losses, and insults of getting old - not to mention its gratifications and rewards. All therapists should read this scholarly, insightful, clinically invaluable work." - Nancy McWilliams, PhD, ABPP, Rutgers University Graduate School of Applied & Professional Psychology
"Amy Schaffer's new book is a distinctive contribution to a frequently overlooked area-working psychoanalytically with the older adult. Schaffer convincingly challenges the agism inherent in the assumption that older patients are unable to engage in deep psychoanalytic work. She points to the limitations inherent in aging-choices have been made and cannot be un-made-yet reminds us of how much can nevertheless be done. Addressing a range of issues relevant to clinical work in general and aging in particular, Schaffer's book is book in rich with clinical experience and wisdom. A must-read for all of us." - Joyce Slochower, NYU Postdoctoral Program
"This seminal book is a welcome arrival that counters the psychoanalytic bias against the elderly concerning their potential for growth and change. Schaffer does not minimize the pain of aging. In fact, she deepens our appreciation for the ways in which physical, cognitive and emotional losses of later life impact the self. What is remarkable is her ability to acknowledge the reality of her patients' experience while also helping them to know themselves better and find ways to grow. Her clinical illustrations expose the false dichotomy between supportive therapy and deep work, reflecting a humanity that is inspiring. Schaffer's voice has the potential to empower the therapist of aging patients who encounters their plight with a sense of helplessness and despair." - Martin Stephen Frommer, Ph.D. Faculty, Stephen Mitchell Relational Study Center, Associate Editor, Psychoanalytic Dialogues
