Why It Feels Like "Me"

How the Mind Creates Identity Without Asking You

By: Sandeep Chavan

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Paperback | 30 May 2026

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306 Pages

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Why does everything feel like "me"?

Thoughts arise, emotions move, decisions happen-and somehow they all feel personal. There is a persistent sense of being a central "someone" behind experience, even when no clear source can be found. Why It Feels Like "Me" is a quiet, precise exploration of how this sense of identity is constructed by the mind-without permission, intention, or conscious choice.

This book does not attempt to improve the self, heal it, motivate it, or replace it with a better version. Instead, it investigates a more fundamental question: how does the feeling of "me" arise at all?

Drawing from direct observation rather than belief systems, the book examines identity as a psychological process-formed through memory, continuity, narrative, and attention. It shows how the mind creates a center where none is required, and how this center becomes the reference point for fear, control, effort, and suffering.

Written in a calm, non-dogmatic tone, the book avoids religious doctrine, spiritual promises, and therapeutic techniques. There are no exercises to follow and no conclusions to accept. Each chapter gently guides the reader to notice what is already happening: how ownership is assumed, how agency is inferred, and how the sense of "I" stabilizes itself through repetition and habit.

Rather than offering answers, Why It Feels Like "Me" creates clarity. It invites readers to see the difference between experience and identity, between awareness and the story built around it. In doing so, it allows understanding to settle naturally-without effort, belief, or resistance.

This book is for readers who are not looking to become someone new, but are curious enough to see what has been taken for granted all along.

Industry Reviews

"Rarely does a book on identity remain this calm, clear, and uncompromising. Instead of offering answers, it quietly changes the quality of the questions."

- Early Reader Review

"A thoughtful and surprisingly gentle inquiry into one of the oldest human assumptions: the feeling of being 'me.' Quietly profound."

- Advance Review Copy Reader

"This book does not try to inspire or fix you. It invites you to observe. And strangely, that becomes the most relieving part."

- Independent Reviewer

"Simple language, deep implications. A reflective exploration of self, awareness, and identity that stays grounded in lived experience."

- Psychology & Philosophy Reader

"Not self-help. Not spirituality. Not philosophy in the heavy sense. Something quieter-and perhaps more honest."

- Beta Reader

"You may finish this book with fewer conclusions, but far more clarity."

- Advance Reader Feedback

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