The Proxy Condition is a landmark work that challenges the architecture of digital life itself. With clarity and force, it reveals how we have come to inhabit a world designed around proxies; stand-ins for attention, presence, emotion, and even identity. These proxies interact, multiply, accelerate, and begin to shape who we think we are, sometimes obscuring truth. We live in two places at once. One is physical. The other is constructed by the systems we interact with.
Drawing from philosophy, cognitive science, design theory, social psychology, epistemology, and system logic, this book names the invisible structures that govern our time and behavior. The book traces the evolution of presence as a system requirement, no longer defined by proximity or intention. What shapes reality now is influence, and what is influenced shapes reality.
The Proxy Condition gives readers language for what they've been feeling but couldn't name, establishing a realistic framework for navigating it with integrity.
This is the foundational text for a new paradigm in human-digital relations. The Proxy Condition is both analysis and artifact, responsible and fearless in its approach.
Industry Reviews
Five out of five stars.
"I highly recommend this book. You will have a much better understanding of how technology has integrated into a dual existence of one's self pertaining to our daily lives and what it all means. The author has painstakingly researched this subject across different fields of expertise and has come up with an astounding conclusion that is backed by data and research. No one out there has even come close to such a concept and/or realization."
Five out of five stars.
"I appreciate how the author synthesizes all the expertise we've heard so far about the internet and qualifies it. She's right. Today, everything we have heard about screen time and internet use isn't wrong, it's just different. Great book. A blend of philosophy, tech, and science, all written with a sense of humor. She doesn't take herself too seriously, while tackling serious topics. Really, a groundbreaking book. I highly recommend."