Sandra is living proof that you can do anything you want, at any age, and that you can follow your passion no matter what it is. Sandra's journey through life will challenge all your assumptions about middle-aged or 'older' women. Her sexual evolution will make you want to embark on your OWN sexual evolution. This is definitely a must-read, inspiring, entertaining and honest look at womanhood, aging and sexuality." -- Shelley Emling, Senior Editor, Huff/Post50
Switch is a book unlike any other, it has something for everyone. Will it push you out of your comfort zone? Most certainly. Are parts of it shocking and risque? Of course! But will it also take you on an eloquent and meaningful journey of self-discovery, honesty, and love? Absolutely.
In her memoir, Dr. Sandra LaMorgese (and her dominatrix alter-ego) take readers on a wild ride through a story that begins with struggle and defeat, but ultimately transforms into a tale of fulfillment, success, and happiness--all because of a year spent working in one of the most famous BDSM dungeons in New York City at 55 years old after losing everything
Her on-the-job stories will make your jaw drop, and her stream-of-consciousness descriptions of her first days down in the dungeon will have you laughing out loud. Most importantly, though, in Switch, you will meet a person who faced challenges just like yours--dreams that looked unattainable, a love life that felt unfulfilling, and a future that seemed full of uncertainty. You will listen in on every epiphany during the difficult times of transition, and you will witness the beautiful metamorphosis that brought her to a place of true success, love, and peace.
Through Sandra's vulnerability, bravery, and unfailing sense of humor, you just might find the same courage that she did--the courage to live authentically and to finally create the life of your dreams.
Industry Reviews
-I've read all of Sandra LaMorgese's blogs and they -- like this book -- will inspire women of all ages. I especially dare any woman over the age of 40 to read this book and not feel emboldened and eager to try a new challenge -- asap! Sandra is living proof that you can do anything you want, at any age, and that you can follow your passion no matter what it is. Sandra's journey through life will challenge all your assumptions about middle-aged or 'older' women. Her sexual evolution will make you want to embark on your OWN sexual evolution. This is definitely a must-read, inspiring, entertaining and honest look at womanhood, aging and sexuality.- -- Shelley Emling, Senior Editor, Huff/Post50 -I feel like this book was really empowering for me....I also loved the message of being authentic and striving for your own happiness in life. I love it. I enjoyed it and thus am giving it a four star rating and recommending it! I have recently been reading this authors blog as well and I find it to be enlightening and helpful. I am grateful for having received the chance to read this book! It was a pretty fast read for me. It is not yet released but be on the lookout as it is coming soon! Ms Nose In A Book -Quite possibly one of the most revolutionary memoirs you'll ever read.- -Sandra LaMorgese's Switch: Time for a Change is different. Aside from the fact that I really like Sandra, her story about how she how she changed her life post-divorce in her early to mid-50's, especially when it came to dating, sex and sexuality, is personal, powerful and honest, and not just the parts in which she decided to become a Dominatrix at 55. Aside from getting an inside look into her training and sessions at a Manhattan BSDM dungeon, Sandra's midlife sexual evolution is more than just about spanking, knife play and humiliating grown-ass masters of the universe. It was her way out of getting pummeled by a financial-crushing business blow. It was also part of discovering her sexual side and how it built her confidence in all aspects of her life, including dating. It's a very thoughtful, mindful, intelligent and very open-minded memoir. I have no doubt that you'll find Sandra the kind of person you'd want to be with or be like.- Bobbie Morgan, A Good Woman's Dirty Mind -Based on today's literary climate (Shades of Gray) this is very marketable material. It is Gray from a woman's perspective. This would appeal to both a male and female audience. Well written. Presented properly as a publisher's pitch! I may have to get a date tonight. LOL- Katherine Phelps, Publisher, Viva Internationale Women's Magazine
"I've read all of Sandra LaMorgese's blogs and they -- like this book -- will inspire women of all ages. I especially dare any woman over the age of 40 to read this book and not feel emboldened and eager to try a new challenge -- asap! Sandra is living proof that you can do anything you want, at any age, and that you can follow your passion no matter what it is. Sandra's journey through life will challenge all your assumptions about middle-aged or 'older' women. Her sexual evolution will make you want to embark on your OWN sexual evolution. This is definitely a must-read, inspiring, entertaining and honest look at womanhood, aging and sexuality." -- Shelley Emling, Senior Editor, Huff/Post50 "I feel like this book was really empowering for me....I also loved the message of being authentic and striving for your own happiness in life. I love it. I enjoyed it and thus am giving it a four star rating and recommending it! I have recently been reading this authors blog as well and I find it to be enlightening and helpful. I am grateful for having received the chance to read this book! It was a pretty fast read for me. It is not yet released but be on the lookout as it is coming soon! Ms Nose In A Book "Quite possibly one of the most revolutionary memoirs you'll ever read." "Sandra LaMorgese's Switch: Time for a Change is different. Aside from the fact that I really like Sandra, her story about how she how she changed her life post-divorce in her early to mid-50's, especially when it came to dating, sex and sexuality, is personal, powerful and honest, and not just the parts in which she decided to become a Dominatrix at 55. Aside from getting an inside look into her training and sessions at a Manhattan BSDM dungeon, Sandra's midlife sexual evolution is more than just about spanking, knife play and humiliating grown-ass masters of the universe. It was her way out of getting pummeled by a financial-crushing business blow. It was also part of discovering her sexual side and how it built her confidence in all aspects of her life, including dating. It's a very thoughtful, mindful, intelligent and very open-minded memoir. I have no doubt that you'll find Sandra the kind of person you'd want to be with or be like." Bobbie Morgan, A Good Woman's Dirty Mind "Based on today's literary climate (Shades of Gray) this is very marketable material. It is Gray from a woman's perspective. This would appeal to both a male and female audience. Well written. Presented properly as a publisher's pitch! I may have to get a date tonight. LOL" Katherine Phelps, Publisher, Viva Internationale Women's Magazine
"Switch is Gray from a woman's perspective. This would appeal to both a male and female audience. Well written. Presented properly as a publisher's pitch! I may have to get a date tonight. LOL" -Katherine Phelps, Publisher, Viva Internationale Women's Magazine "I feel like this book was really empowering for me....I also loved the message of being authentic and striving for your own happiness in life. I love it. I enjoyed it and thus am giving it a four star rating and recommending it! I have recently been reading this authors blog as well and I find it to be enlightening and helpful. I am grateful for having received the chance to read this book!" - Ms Nose In A Book "Quite possibly one of the most revolutionary memoirs you'll ever read. Sandra LaMorgese's Switch: Time for a Change is different. Aside from the fact that I really like Sandra, her story about how she how she changed her life post-divorce in her early to mid-50's, especially when it came to dating, sex and sexuality, is personal, powerful and honest, and not just the parts in which she decided to become a Dominatrix at 55. Sandra's midlife sexual evolution is more than just about spanking, knife play and humiliating grown-ass masters of the universe. It was her way out of getting pummeled by a financial-crushing business blow. It was also part of discovering her sexual side and how it built her confidence in all aspects of her life, including dating. It's a very thoughtful, mindful, intelligent and very open-minded memoir. I have no doubt that you'll find Sandra the kind of person you'd want to be with or be like." -Bobbie Morgan, A Good Woman's Dirty Mind "I just finished 'Switch' and absolutely LOOOVED it! Sandra speaks the truth from the heart and we can all take a lesson away from it. You don't have to become a Dominatrix to apply her wisdom to your life. It's about finding your passion and follow it wholeheartedly, not caring about other people's opinion, defining boundaries, not taking any BS, being authentic and true to yourself, not judging and finding out what makes you happy."- Monika Werner, Director, Teacher, Yogini at Bold and Naked Yoga "Man you gave guts!!" -Carolynn Mincin, THE MOST UNBALANCED WOMAN IN COMEDY "Switch" is an erotic journey of self discovery and personal empowerment. While reading this book, I found myself looking forward to each page and chapter as I learned more and more about myself as a person, through the experiences of Sandra. In the end,"Switch" proved to be about the journey each of us is able to take in order to realize our most authentic self. Brilliant, erotic, insightful are just a few words I'd use to describe "Switch." -Maryam Moshiri O'Connor, Clinical Director at Utopia Healing Center It was so refreshing to read about your journey of self discovery. Reminding us to focus on love, not fear is such an amazing life lesson. -Cheers, Debbie "I loved 'Switch' - Tina O "This was a truly wonderful read that should inspire everyone, not just women, to not let anything stand in their way of becoming who they truly are! -Jay "After reading Switch a couple months ago, I came to realize that if I want change my circumstances, whether financial or life changing, it is up to me to make it happen." -Jo Anna S "Sandra is the perfect guide to a place you always wanted to know about, but were too scared to visit. Her well-written narrative is part travel-guide to the world of BDSM and part honest life confessional of a tough, fiercely intelligent woman." -Matt W "Switch" is an amazing book, I couldn't stop reading it!" - Allen B "Just tell me what can't you do I'm hooked!" - Ra Hanna "Just finished "Switch" and I'm blown away!" Jxxx "An amazing book." - The Daring One "Switch is a refreshing, honest view into the BDSM industry." Jenn E
