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Open Every Window : A Memoir - Jane Munro

Open Every Window

A Memoir

By: Jane Munro

Hardcover | 28 January 2022

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When Jane Munro's husband is diagnosed with Alzheimer's, the Griffin-award-winning poet must chart a path through the depths of grief, learning to live with loss and to take solace and find freedom in the restorative powers of writing.

Open Every Window is a genre-bending prose account of the unravelling of a life—two lives—when Munro's husband, Bob, twenty years her senior, is diagnosed with Alzheimer's. Evoking Lorna Crozier''s Through the Garden, this memoir charts a path through sorrow—the pain of seeing a partner age and approach death, the exhaustion of caretaking and the regret in seeing life's scope narrow and diminish. Writing with courage and love, Munro grapples with what it means to care for a husband who is gradually but devastatingly deteriorating. Her identity as a writer, yoga practitioner, mother and grandmother is eclipsed by a single word—caregiver.

When a doctor admonishes, "What job could be more important than caring for your husband?" Munro wonders if the same question would be asked if the roles were reversed and her husband was asked to put aside all his own needs in order to care for a wife with dementia. Ultimately, Munro finds respite in the power of writing, Iyengar yoga and the rhythms of the moon—not to heal but to allow her to face grief without breaking.

A poignant affirmation for anyone who has experienced loss, Open Every Window reveals the pain and power inherent in loving and being loved. Framed with short observations of the moon—from a new moon in Pune, India, to the following new moon in Vancouver, Canada—this memoir will entrance with its lyricism and comfort with the writer's hard-won warmth and wisdom.

Industry Reviews

"Jane Munro's memoir is a jewel: spare, bright, and sharp, effortlessly elegant, and illuminated by love's many facets." - Annabel Lyon, author of Consent

"Munro's lyric prose is lit from within. A remarkable memoir, both fresh and graceful." - Jan Zwicky

"With characteristic clarity, honesty, and restraint, Jane Munro unveils the extraordinary devotion of women to parents, children, husbands, families, to everyone but themselves. Open Every Window reminds me of Alice Munro's Lives of Girls and Women as it charts the socialization of girls over a lifetime. When does one yield to expectations? When must one resist? Never a word wasted, never an extraneous detail, Munro reveals the conundrums, self-denial, the invisible labour of women in all their roles. She writes with insider knowledge of the conflicts women face as they try to preserve a life of their own. The lingering beauty of Open Every Window is the revelation that a single life can hold so much more than one life." - Ian Williams, author of Reproduction

"Open Every Window is a window into a full life lived, with the many choices and challenges, sorrow and circumstance, that years bring. Warm, lyrical, and candid, Jane Munro shows us how to somehow stay open hearted, even when your heart is gripped by grief." - Christa Couture

"Open Every Window is a story of life lived expansively, a story of seeking, and the fine threads that hold life together, whether children or yoga, love letters, giving care, or the cycles of the moon. Munro's strongest thread-the question of 'What is it to be a good woman?'-is the resonant touchstone in these pages." - Alison Acheson

"I read Jane Munro's beautifully written memoir, Open Every Window, with the mixture of pleasure and sadness that comes with recognition of what it means to forge a life that diverges from expectations. A husband's dementia, a tragic fire, the intricacies of family on the stunning west coast of Canada, a different life in India: the pieces moved and altered relationship as I read. They are shifting still, like pieces of glass falling through the shade and sunlight of ocean water. There is something heartbreakingly sane about Munro's perspective: it remains with me and refuses to settle." - Marilyn Bowering

"...heartbreakingly beautiful read ...illuminatingly honest...Munro's words were poignantly honest and offer a wonderful perspective on grief, loss and dying. If you enjoyed Through the Garden, or The Year Of Magical Thinking you might enjoy this one too."-Kate Hill, @bookalong

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