"If you have been looking for a book that helps you and your partner understand how to let go of sexual perfectionism and start enjoying your sex life, Making Nice with Naughty is for you. In a kind but straightforward style, Dr. Tom Murray helps you identify why being in control and having great sex don't make good bedfellows. Then you'll discover how to turn off that internal critical voice and express and receive the intimacy you really want."
Dr. Stephanie Buehler
Author, What Every Mental Health Professional Needs to Know about Sex, 3rd Ed.
"Dr. Murray reminds us why we often say that "the brain is the biggest sex organ." Making Nice with Naughty is a timely discussion on the connection between personality and sexuality. This book offers realistic examples of how our memories, thoughts, and the mind-body connection can impact our sex lives and relationships. This book can help enlighten anyone seeking answers to a possible void or challenge in their sex lives. If you are curious about yourself or others, this book provides valuable insights."
Tanya M. Bass, Ph.D., CHES®, CSE
The Southern Sexologist â¢
"If you or someone you know can't put aside life's demands long enough to enjoy the simple pleasures of sex, then Making Nice with Naughty is the book for you. Through his personal, relatable, and thought -provoking writing style, Dr. Murray guides readers on how to tame the greatest obstacle to sexual enjoyment, themselves."
Samuel Sanabria, Ph.D., AASECT Certified Sex Therapist
Professor in Clinical Mental Health Counseling, Rollins College
"If your Over-Controlling Inner Assholes are ruining your intimate relationships, Making Nice with Naughty is your roadmap for letting go, enjoying the ride, and reconnecting to yourself and your partner(s)."
Lynn Dutrow, LCPC
Author, ALIGNED As F*ck: Transforming Your Inner Assholes (like Anxiety) into Allies
"A skillful blend of therapeutic knowledge, assertiveness, and compassion, Dr. Murray succinctly offers clear explanations palatable for the general public as well as for professionals. His clinical approach to working with individuals and relationships comes through beautifully as if he's sitting right across from you."
Dr. Reece Malone - Sex Therapist & Sexuality Educator
Co-editor of An Intersectional Approach to Sex Therapy