Chosen Suffering

I have always believed that one makes their luck through extensive preparation. I'd like to say that we worked hard to get Tom to come to the U of Iowa. The program's reputation and the hard work on the mat are what brought Tom Ryan to campus, leaving Syracuse and a full scholarship behind. The first day of practice was a tough one for him. But Tom showed up more ready to go on the second day and then the third and then the fourth. Seeing this made me realize that Iowa wrestling had a potential new wrestler who would fit in very well, and he did. In reality, we got a little lucky, which doesn't happen often.

Dan Gable, Olympic Gold Medalist

University of Iowa

21-time Big Ten Champion Coach (consecutive), 16-time NCAA Championship coach

Coach Tom Ryan has been an inspiration to me and a difference-maker to everyone who has the good fortune to be in his company. He is always available for a call or text when you need his faithful strength. I consider Tom Ryan to be an authentic influencer in my life.

Jim Tressel, Head Football Coach, The Ohio State University, National Championship Coach 2012

Tom Ryan was a top-notch teammate who came to Iowa to learn how to win the right way. He is open-minded and continues to be better every day. Tom is a lifetime friend who has dealt with life-shattering adversity, putting life skills to the real test. He is a genuine, high-minded friend with selfless ambitions to make everyone around him better.

Terry Brands, Associate Head Coach, University of Iowa, Teammate, Two-Time World Champion, Olympic Bronze Medalist

I knew from the beginning that Tom Ryan was different. He had a certain spark within him. As we came into the Iowa Program, we had a lot of hopes and dreams. There is no doubt that his passion, drive, and energy was a great part of our individual and team success.

Terry Steiner, Head Women's Olympic Coach, Iowa Teammate

Tom's willingness to put everything on the line earned him the respect of Hawkeye Nation when he came to Iowa. Tom's passion, desire, and drive are what set him apart from many others. He made a huge impact on everyone around him and was a large part of the success we had at Iowa in the early 1990s.

Troy Steiner, Head Coach Fresno State, Iowa Teammate

I'll never forget the first time Coach Tom shared his story with me and I heard him say these words: "God never wastes suffering." He is a living example of how to use one's life to glorify God and inspire others. I consider our friendship one of the greatest blessings of my life and having he, Lynette, and the kids join us in the mission of Rock City Church has been a tremendous gift. 

Chad Fisher, Pastor, Rock City Church

ï»I don't wonder why Tom has been so successful in his personal and wrestling life. If you're lucky enough to get pulled into his circle, you'd serve yourself well to embrace it. 

Jon Adwar, High School Teammate