Bookends

"We have finally come to understand that birth and death are best understood in their proper context as social events-ones that ought to, at their best, involve others. This book, taking on Murray Enkin's long-established views on both, celebrates these ideas in an articulate and deeply touching way. A must-read after the depths of isolation caused by the recent pandemic."

Sholom Glouberman, Philosopher in Residence at Baycrest Health Sciences Centre in Toronto, Ontario Canada, Founder of Patients Canada, and author of The Mechanical Patient: Finding a More Human Model of Health

"A thoughtful exploration and comparison of life's most important passages (birth and death) full of insight and practical suggestions. I recommend this book to healthcare professionals and anyone else who has been born, lives, or might someday die! I grinned, I wept, and then I went back and made notes!"

 Jo Owens, author of Another Kind of Paradise

"My mother was dying. I sat beside her hospital bed, knowing it was for the last time. A young nurse came to say goodbye. She was going on maternity leave and my mom had been a favourite patient. Mom looked up. Slowly and with difficulty, she placed a trembling hand on her swelling tummy and said, 'One comes in and one goes out.' At an unsettling time for all of us, it was a warm, enchanting moment. It was also the truth. As one of us leaves the planet, we make space for the next arrival: a time for emotion, celebration, and profound change. Susan Boron has studied the many similarities in this wondrous cycle. Through both clinical and personal observation, she takes the reader through the trauma of goodbye and the thrill of hello with kindness and candour. For health professionals and the rest of us as well, Bookends is a well-researched, thought-provoking and comforting read.

 I have known Susan's family for many years. I will be forever grateful to Susan's dad, Dr. Murray Enkin, for helping me begin my own career. Murray died recently. We celebrated his rich life as best we could, uplifted in knowing that he changed obstetrics forever and created opportunities for others who now take his place. The cycle continues. One comes in and one goes out....and each event is a miracle."

Lynn Johnston, author of For Better For Worse (the cartoon series)

ï»"With warmth, wisdom, and compassion, and after more than four decades of caring for her patients, Dr. Susan Boron reflects on the poignant drama and inevitability of birth and death and the surprising parallels between them."

Jacalyn Duffin, MD, PhD, author of History of Medicine: A Scandalously Short Introduction