Abuse Desk Chronicles is a frontline memoir from the hidden war rooms of the internet — where trust & safety, cybersecurity, and human endurance collide.
In this book, I trace the grit and cost of abuse response work:
- Trench life (Status 46, Winter in Tempe, When Our Trenches Got Flooded...) - the raw, daily grind of escalation queues and impossible choices.
- Mortality & memory (Death in the Fall, Kiksuya) - how grief and humanity bleed into the inbox.
- The toll (Money, Self-Whipping, Enhanced Protection in the Age of Compliance) - the personal, financial, and ethical costs of policing the internet.
- Aftershocks (Dating After the Desk) - how trauma lingers in relationships and everyday life.
- Meta reflections (The Catalogs Don't Expire, Atrocity Laundering) - industry critique, policy failures, and cultural blind spots.
This book blends memoir, philosophy, and system-level critique to capture what it felt like to sit in the chair that decided which domains, images, or words lived or died online.
It's not just a record of internet history — it's a blueprint for understanding the human beings behind the filters, and the costs they carry.
