You Can't Optimize This is a relationship guide for high performers who've mastered everything — except intimacy.
Built for entrepreneurs, executives, and driven individuals, the book exposes why the very skills that fuel success — discipline, logic, systems — quietly sabotage emotional connection.
Through sharp insights, real-world stories, and a no-fluff approach, You Can't Optimize This offers a new path: one where surrender, presence, and honesty replace strategies and scripts.
It's not about trying harder.
It's about showing up differently.
If you've ever felt like you're brilliant at business but lost at home — this book will change how you love.
