The Big O

Only Oloni can make you feel this good. 'Oloni is the reigning sex and relationship guru of Twitter' VOGUE 'The expert bringing sex positivity (and spice) to Twitter and your group chats' Los Angeles Times

With over a decade of sexpertise, a sex positive podcast, and an inbox full of anonymous DMs, The Big O is Oloni's unmissable take on everything sex and relationships.

Your vulva is not your vagina. And PIV (penis inside vagina) is not the only P.O.V. The word 'relationship' is also more complex than you think: open it up and it's polygamous; blur the boundaries and it's a situationship.

No matter what you want, or who you want it with, The Big O is a safe space, to be your slutty, sensitive, sexy self - with no judgement, and no shame. (And if shame does make an appearance, Oloni will show you where it comes from and why it has no place in your sex life). Through sex stories and Oloni's own experiences, some of the things you'll discover in this book are:

Masturbation | Sexual Identity | Consent | Body Confidence | Orgasms | Sexual Compatibility | Relationship Styles | Sex Work and Transactional Sex | Kinks and Fetishes | Preferences | Sexual Health and STIs| Hookups | Healing | Disability and Sex | Open Relationships | LGBTQ+ Experiences | Empowerment | Sex Positivity | Celibacy | Sluttiness | Sexual Aftercare | Dating Dilemmas | Dirty Talk | Tackling Taboos | Toys

The Big O is a resource for every body. Are you ready to come?