Get Free Shipping on orders over $79
The Ingredients of Emotional Maturity : How to become more self-aware and resilient - The School of Life

The Ingredients of Emotional Maturity

How to become more self-aware and resilient

By: The School of Life

Hardcover | 6 August 2026

At a Glance

Hardcover


$39.75

or 4 interest-free payments of $9.94 with

 or 

Ships in 15 to 25 business days

We often assume that maturity arrives automatically with age. Yet many of us enter adulthood without ever learning what emotional maturity actually involves â" or how to develop it.

The Ingredients of Emotional Maturity explores the core psychological qualities that define emotional adulthood: the ability to explain rather than merely react, to forgive without abandoning ourselves, to face conflict without catastrophising, and to live with the limits of who we are without falling into despair.

Written with clarity and compassion, this book examines emotional responsibility, vulnerability, self-compassion and the art of staying calm under pressure. It shows why emotional immaturity can persist long into adult life â" and how, with patience and insight, we can move beyond reactive habits to become more resilient, generous and wise.

Thoughtful, practical and deeply humane, The Ingredients of Emotional Maturity is for anyone who wants to become a better friend, partner, colleague or parent â" not through perfection, but through a kinder, more realistic understanding of what it truly means to grow up.

More in Psychology: Emotions

How To Do The Work : the million-copy global bestseller - Dr Nicole LePera
Fight Right : How Successful Couples Turn Conflict into Connection - Dr John Gottman
Shift : How to Manage Your Emotions so They Don't Manage You - Ethan Kross
All About Love : New Visions [Deluxe Collector's Edition] - Bell Hooks
Communion : The Female Search for Love - Bell Hooks

RRP $32.99

$25.75

22%
OFF
How Emotions Are Made : The Secret Life of the Brain - Lisa Feldman Barrett
What My Bones Know : A Memoir of Healing from Complex Trauma - Stephanie Foo
Notes to John - Joan Didion

Paperback

RRP $34.99

$28.75

18%
OFF
Open When . . . : A Companion for Life's Twists & Turns - Dr Julie Smith