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You Never Call! You Never Write! : A History of the Jewish Mother - Joyce Antler

You Never Call! You Never Write!

A History of the Jewish Mother

Paperback Published: 1st March 2008
ISBN: 9780195341430
Number Of Pages: 321

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In You Never Call, You Never Write, Joyce Antler provides an illuminating and often amusing history of one of the best-known figures in popular culture--the Jewish Mother.
Antler traces the odyssey of this compelling personality through decades of American culture. She reminds us of a time when Jewish mothers were admired for their tenacity and nurturance, as in the early twentieth-century image of the "Yiddishe Mama," a sentimental figure popularized by entertainers such as George Jessel, Al Jolson, and Sophie Tucker, and especially by Gertrude Berg, whose amazingly successful "Molly Goldberg" ruled American radio and television for over 25 years. Antler explains the transformation of this Jewish Mother into a "brassy-voiced, smothering, and shrewish" scourge (in Irving Howe's words), detailing many variations on this negative theme, from Philip Roth's Portnoy's Complaint and Woody Allen's Oedipus Wrecks to television shows such as "The Nanny" and Larry David's "Curb Your Enthusiasm." But she also uncovers a new counter-narrative, leading feminist scholars and stand-up comediennes to see the Jewish Mother in positive terms.
A joy to read, You Never Call, You Never Write will delight anyone who has ever known or been nurtured by a "Jewish Mother," and it will be a special source of insight for modern parents. As Antler suggests, in many ways, "we are all Jewish Mothers" today.
"After reading this, you'll call, you'll write, and you'll say thank you "
--Judy Gold, comedian
"More than a history of Jewish motherhood, this book offers a fresh perspective on Jewish history, women's history, and the history of popular culture that is both informative and entertaining.... Readers will finish the book with a fuller and more nuanced understanding of the history of the Jewish mother--and mothers in general."
--Library Journal
"As educational as it is riotous...go buy this book and call your mom."
--The Jewish Magazine

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"Perceptive and often amusing."--Hadassah Magazine "Perceptive and often amusing."--Hadassah Magazine

Acknowledgmentsp. ix
Introductionp. 1
The Nagging Stereotype
"My Yiddishe Mama": The Multiple Faces of the Immigrant Jewish Motherp. 15
Molly Goldberg: "The Prototype of the Jewish Mother" in the Twentieth Centuryp. 47
Margaret Mead and Ruth Benedict: Social Science Uncovers the Jewish "Family Plot"p. 73
From Marjorie Morningstar to Jennie Grossinger: The Suburbs, the Catskills, and the Jewish Mother Jokep. 101
"American Mother of the Year" Versus Monster Mothers: Will the Real Sophie Portnoy Please Stand Up?p. 123
The New Face of the Jewish Mother
The Mother and the Movement: Feminism Constructs the Jewish Motherp. 149
Roseanne and The Nanny: The Jewish Mother as Postmodern Spectaclep. 169
From Second-Generation Memoirs to Women's History: Reclaiming the Missing Motherp. 193
"They Raised Beautiful Families": Jewish Mothers Narrate Their Livesp. 215
We Are All Jewish Mothers: Mothering in the New Millenniump. 233
Epiloguep. 257
Notesp. 259
Archival Sourcesp. 301
Indexp. 303
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ISBN: 9780195341430
ISBN-10: 0195341430
Audience: General
Format: Paperback
Language: English
Number Of Pages: 321
Published: 1st March 2008
Publisher: Oxford University Press
Country of Publication: US
Dimensions (cm): 22.35 x 14.22  x 2.29
Weight (kg): 0.45