I feel it's time to retreat from the intricate study of the human mind and theoretical case studies. We need nut and bolt insight into why we're still single, divorced, or remarried again and again. Both genders of "mainstream society" are being addressed with the intention of creating a balance of spiritual and emotional responsibility between a man and a woman prior to, and after, marriage or divorce. This writing addresses the subtle ruin of the once sacred family unit. It reveals why hopeful single men or women may never get to the altar. Vast majorities of people persist in holding great optimism for love and marriage to one person, yet they seem incapable of sustaining a relationship, or they maintain the wrong type of relationship. Even though division among men and women has surfaced within dating and marriage relationships, every heart continues to anticipate everlasting love. I am personally saddened by the increasing loss of women's femininity and their God-given roles, and the effect this loss has had on society. Concurrently, I'm dismayed with the amount of passivity, lack of masculinity, and the loss of God-given roles in men. Throughout this book, we will look at some repercussions of our actions regarding the haphazard use of our innate gifts. My hope is to help each gender realize how important it is to maintain specific innate roles, and to carry them out as God designed in our current marital status. We will look at copious truths, and at a variety of subjects regarding singles, and married, or divorced couples. This book advises the reader about family, community, and God. It encounters issues ranging from commitment, roles, finances, sex, femininity, masculinity, and "socially acceptable" practices, to the recognition of spiritual battles within us.