This is to all people who are currently seeking a divorce, in a troubled relationship, or maybe it's just a thought that you should move on. Male or female, it's not an easy process. Remember be true to you, stay positive, and live healthy. There is no time limit on how long it takes to decide to leave. The choice is yours to change your mind however many times you want to, it's okay and it's normal. It certainly doesn't make us less of a person who is weak or indecisive. I think it means we are doing the right thing that matters to us. I have faith that you'll know when you are ready. Even if you are torn together.