The Origins of You : How to Break Free from the Family Patterns that Shape Us - Vienna Pharaon

The Origins of You

How to Break Free from the Family Patterns that Shape Us

By: Vienna Pharaon

Paperback | 28 February 2023 | Edition Number 1

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From licensed therapist and popular Instagram relationship expert Vienna Pharaon comes a profound guide to understanding and overcoming wounds from your family of origin - the foundation of how we relate to others, ourselves, and the world around us.

None of us had a perfect childhood; we are all carrying around behaviors that don't serve us - and may in fact be hurting us. But it doesn't have to be that way, says licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Vienna Pharaon. Our past might create our patterns, but we can change those patterns for the better with the right tools.

In THE ORIGINS OF YOU, Pharaon has unlocked a healing process to help us understand our family of origin - the family and framework we grew up within - and examine what worked (and didn't) in that system. Certain dysfunctions (or "wounds") in that family of origin will manifest in our adult life in surprising ways, from work challenges to interpersonal struggles. But when armed with the knowledge about our past, we can rewire our programming to meaningfully improve our relationships and our lives.

It doesn't matter whether you've been in therapy for decades, or whether therapy isn't for you. It doesn't matter if you have plenty of memories from childhood, or struggle to remember anything at all. All that matters is your willingness to look inside yourself, and your determination to find a new way forward. Complete with guided introspection, personal experiences, client stories, frameworks for having difficult conversations, and worksheets to complement each chapter, THE ORIGINS OF YOU will teach you how your family can both build you up and break you down - and how you can heal yourself for good.

About the Author

Vienna Pharaon is one of New York City's most sought-after licensed Marriage and Family Therapists and the founder of the MindfulMFT community on Instagram. She has been featured in the Economist, Netflix, BBC, Vogue, and Men's Health, has spoken on stages around the world, and has presented workshops to companies including Peloton and Netflix.

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