This book is a true story about my life, it was written to open the eyes of women across the world who have been bound in out of wedlock relationships, which has cause them to believe that things will never get better than what the natural eye can see. but the devil is a liar, this book will teach you how to get out of bondage that you may capture the dream you only imagine and bring it to reality. you will find out why we believe we are unworthy of true happiness. This book shall deliver and set woman free who are held captive within their minds, only because they don't know who they are yet, neither do they know the power that God has already put on the inside of them just waiting to manifest on an outward appearance. This book will help encourage young women as well as the old to move by the power within and recognize their place in this world. In this book you will find true life experiences of my own and you will find out that you can defeat the enemy when he comes up against you no matter what shape, form, or fashion he comes in. you will learn the difference of calling one a friend thats a boy from a boyfriend! You will learn to recognize the difference between being in love as opposed to being in lust seeing that lust is the imitator of love. Therefore, if you follow the instructions of God you will find great rewards. This book is not to put down men, we as woman must take full responsibility for our own actions however, it is to bring hope and encouragement to our women that are struggling with who they are in God.