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Should I Stay Or Go  Pb : How Controlled Separation (CS) Can Save Your Marriage - Lee Raffel

Should I Stay Or Go Pb

How Controlled Separation (CS) Can Save Your Marriage

Paperback Published: 1st September 1999
ISBN: 9780809225132
Number Of Pages: 304

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Until now, couples facing the dilemma of deciding whether or not to stay in an unhappy marriage had three options: individual or couples therapy, separation, or divorce. "Should I Stay or Go?" provides these couples with a fourth option--the Controlled Separation (CS). "Should I Stay or Go?" explains CS and shows how it can be used as a tool to help couples make the best decision for both partners.

Forewordp. v
Prefacep. vii
Acknowledgmentsp. ix
Breaking the Marital Impasse
Couples on the Cuspp. 3
Your Travel Guide to Becoming Advocatesp. 17
Controlled Separation: A Breakthrough Solutionp. 29
Negotating a Controlled Separation Contractp. 43
The CS Contract: Tale of a Tenacious Couplep. 57
My Marriage Is Making Me Sickp. 71
The Anatomy of Marital Separationp. 87
The Trouble with Trial Separationp. 99
In-House Separation: Upstairs/Downstairs Palsp. 111
Relationship Transformation
Users, Abusers, Losers: Twisted Minds--Twisted Livesp. 127
Broken Hearts, Broken Children: A Call for Compassionp. 139
Money Counts: Different Hats/Different Spatsp. 153
Sexual Excesses: Perverse Pairsp. 161
The Identity Crisis: Discovery-Zone Matesp. 175
The Well-Kept Secret: Partners in the Darkp. 189
Crippled by Rage and Remorse: Scarred Spousesp. 203
From Blame to Forgiving: How Do I Know I Love Thee?p. 217
Active Waiting: Hurry-Up and Slow-Down Partnersp. 227
Operating Instructions
The Good Divorcep. 241
The Good Marriagep. 255
Epiloguep. 269
Author's Notep. 271
Chapter Notesp. 273
Selected Bibliographyp. 279
Recommended Readingsp. 283
Indexp. 287
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ISBN: 9780809225132
ISBN-10: 0809225131
Audience: Professional
Format: Paperback
Language: English
Number Of Pages: 304
Published: 1st September 1999
Publisher: Contemporary Books Inc
Country of Publication: US
Dimensions (cm): 23.0 x 15.0  x 1.0
Weight (kg): 0.49
Edition Number: 1
Edition Type: New edition