Throughout history, men and women have had hidden agendas. Although relationships have conflicts, a refusal to see things in a realistic manner and make a change can be a deadly experience emotionally and physically for some individuals. When views on life are unrealistic, then the concept of life for that individual can be devastating. The family unit can be made up of two parents, or one parent. The sanctuary of the home should be a place where individuals seek love, safety, security, and shelter. However, perpetrators have different positions. They can be male or female. Life has cycles. From the beginning, individuals need to be selective about who can and cannot approach their lives. There are times when a magnitude of problems affects your thought patterns. Emotional impacts can have an effect on behavior. The consequences of certain behaviors can lead many individuals to be in denial. This impact can lead to other problems such as death of a loved one, or oneself.