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Nasty People, 2/E : NTC Self-Help - Jay Carter

Nasty People, 2/E

NTC Self-Help

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Published: 26th May 2003
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Fourteen years since its first publication, the bestseller"Nasty People "has been revised and updated to cover the motivations of nasty people, how to avoid confrontation with a nasty boss, how to handle a nasty spouse, and much more, including: How to break the cycle of nastiness A new understanding of personality disorders and depression Narcissism, nasty behavior, and self-doubt Nasty people and self-validation The role adrenaline plays in nasty behavior and our responses to it.

Everyone knows a person who has been hurt, betrayed, or degraded by nasty individuals or has experienced it themselves. In three books, Jay Carter, Psy. D., shows readers how to stop this cycle of overt and covert abuse, without resorting to nasty tactics. Now for the first time, this series is released together to cover all areas of dealing with difficult people. With straight-talking advice, real-life anecdotes, and psychology that makes sense, Carter explains how to handle and stop painful behavior that harms both the perpetrator and the victim.

Acknowledgmentsp. ix
From a Studentp. xi
From the Authorp. xiii
Overviewp. xix
The Invalidatorp. 1
Portrait of an Invalidatorp. 3
Methods of the Invalidatorp. 7
Uncertaintyp. 7
Projectionp. 9
Generalizationp. 10
Judgmentp. 10
Manipulationp. 11
Sneak Attackp. 13
Double Messagep. 13
Cutting Communicationp. 16
Building You Up, Cutting You Downp. 16
The Double Bindp. 17
The Bigger Picturep. 23
Self-Doubtp. 25
Narcissism (Everything Is About Me)p. 27
Chemical Imbalancesp. 29
Personality Disordersp. 31
Invalidator: An Archetypep. 32
Most Obvious Personalityp. 34
Less Obvious Personalityp. 35
Least Obvious Personalityp. 35
Identifying an Invalidatorp. 37
The Victimp. 43
How Victims Are Compelled to Remain Victimsp. 44
Creating a Victimp. 46
Right/Wrong Dysfunctionp. 48
Two Dancers: An Examplep. 54
The Cycle of Invalidationp. 57
To an Invalidatorp. 58
Why You Are an Invalidatorp. 59
How Do You Stop?p. 60
What Happens to Invalidators?p. 62
To the Invalidated Who Doesn't Invalidatep. 71
What Do We Do About It?p. 75
Invalidator Bossp. 75
Invalidator Spousep. 81
Handling Invalidationp. 83
Confrontingp. 89
Repeat That, Pleasep. 89
Tell the Whole Truthp. 90
Get Him or Her Alonep. 92
Mirror the Projectionp. 92
What to Tell Children About Invalidatorsp. 93
Coping with Invalidationp. 95
To Invalidation: The Mechanismp. 97
To Invalidationp. 98
Bibliographyp. 101
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ISBN: 9780071410229
ISBN-10: 0071410228
Series: NTC Self-Help
Audience: General
Format: Paperback
Language: English
Number Of Pages: 128
Published: 26th May 2003
Publisher: McGraw-Hill Education - Europe
Country of Publication: US
Dimensions (cm): 14.1 x 21.0  x 0.9
Weight (kg): 0.14
Edition Number: 2
Edition Type: Revised