I'm glad that you are reading this book. First of all, let me say that we are all the sum of our life experiences. Because we all are unique, this book will impact each person reading it in a different way. This is not a male-bashing book. It is written to give insight into relationships, and encourage healthy relationships. It will also help men and women identify characteristics that either make or break a relationship. It includes exercises for self improvement and positive daily affirmations. This book is a "must read." It will not only impact your outlook and improve your relationship, it may just be the best book that ever happened to you.