Remember that although divorce is an ending, it is also a new beginning.Life does not always go as planned, and people are allowed to change. Sometimes that change shakes the very core of a relationship. It's part of living. It's how we grow. In a perfect world, and with a bit of luck, we get to change and grow old with our partners. That's the dream. At least it was mine. But not all relationships work that way. And whey they don't, we have to realize that life is too short to spend it tearing each other apart and battling the same battles until death do we part.