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Come Hither : A Commonsense Guide to Kinky Sex :  A Commonsense Guide to Kinky Sex - Gloria Brame

Come Hither : A Commonsense Guide to Kinky Sex

A Commonsense Guide to Kinky Sex

Paperback

Published: February 2000
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How do you tell your partner that you'd like to be spanked?
-- Where can you find a good dominatrix?
-- If your husband likes to wear your panties, does that mean he's gay?
-- What really goes on at SM clubs?
-- After you tie someone up, what exactly are you supposed to do?
-- Is there such a thing as normal sex?

If you've ever wondered about the ins and outs of bondage, spanking, or cross-dressing, look no further. Come Hither is a frank, friendly guide on how to turn your secret fantasies into satisfying expressions of love and desire. The official resource guide for SM/fetish sex at the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality, Come Hither proves that a little kink can be a lot of fun.

Dr. Robert T. McIlvenna President, The Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality Dr. Brame is simply the best tour guide I know for your travel in the world of kinky sex. Bob Berkowitz author of His Secret Life Come Hither is accessible, fun to read, informative, and sexy all at the same time. I highly recommend it.

Introductory Kink
Kinky Confessional
Basic Sexual Rights
The Five Fallacies of Kinky Sex
What's Your Kink Quotient?
Know Thy Kinky Self
The Kink Quotient Quiz
The Kink in All of Us
What's Normal?
Are You Ready to Explore?
"Ready...or Not?" Quiz
Just Say Maybe
Eight Talking Points on Kinky Sex
When Your Partner Is Hostile: Dr. Brame's One-Question Wonder Quiz
Four Steps to Kinky Romance
Fluffy Stuff
How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love the Whip
How to Eroticize Anything
Kink and God: The Spiritual Conflict
Getting Involved
Kink and the Single Pervert
Getting Kinky
Ye Olde Subtle Hintes
A Word About Timing
Playing It Safe and Keeping It Consensual
Where to Go, Who to Do
Before Stepping Out: A Short Guide to Social Etiquette
Erotic Bondage
Is Bondage Wrong?
What Makes Bondage Sexy?
The Five Top Reasons Why People Love Bondage
Prisoners of Love
The Five Top Captivity Fantasies
Bondage Tips and Techniques
Clamps, Cuffs, and Crosses: A Basic Guide to Bondage Toys
Fifteen Ways to Tease Your Tied-Up Lover
Bondage Nevers
Erotic Pain
How Can Anything That Hurts Be Good?
Good Pain vs. Bad Pain
How to Take Your Lover from Pain to Pleasure: Five Tips
Can I Be Submissive If I Don't Like Pain?
Safety, Safety, Safety and, in Case You Weren't Listening, Safety!
Top Torture Toys and Techniques
Fetishes
What's a Fetish?
A Fetish Is Alive!
Fetish Tales
A Catalogue of Fetishes
Role-Play and Lifestyle Relationships
Role-Play FAQ
Section Two: Roundup of Roles and Role-Based Relationships
Transgenderism: The Second Self
What's in a Gender?
Transvestite or Transsexual?
Common Concerns of TVs and Some Advice
Quick Questions from Partners of TVs
The Three Big Headaches of Being a TV
Tips on Teasing a TV
Power Relationships
What Are Power Relationships?
Should Parents in Lifestyle Power Relationships Keep Their Kinks Hidden from Their Kids?
Is Coming Out to Your Relatives a Good Idea?
The View from the Top: Sexual Dominants
The Fictional Dominant vs. the Human Dominant
A Note to Gay/Lesbian Readers
Key Qualities of Great Dominants
What's in a Name? Typing Your Topness
Trust: The Key to Joyful Obedience
Emotional Temperature-Taking
Myths That Need to Go Away
Three Flavors of Femdoms
Female Dominance: Oxymoron or Redundancy?
How to Punish a Masochist
It's the Perks, Darling!: Five Cool Things About Being a Bitch for Female Dominants
The Five Worst Things About Being a Heterosexual Male Dominant
Psychological Dominance
Six Easy Ways to Relax Your Submissive
What's So Funny About Kinky Sex?
A Few Tips to Spice Up Your Psychodrama
It's the Perks, Darling!: Five Fun Things About Being a Bastard for Male Dominants
The View from the Bottom: Sexual Submissives
The Submissive Stigma
Slave, Submissive, Masochist, or Bottom?
If I'm a Slave, Do I Live in a Cage?
Are You Being Abused?
Public Etiquette for Submissives
The Uncollared Sub
Finding a Ringmaster in a World of Clowns
Ten Stupid Things That Femsubs Do to Screw Up Their Lives
Signs That the Dom Is Dangerous
Sweet Services to Please a Dominant
In Search of HER
To See or Not to See (A Prodom)
Kinky Facts, Follies, and Fun
Reviewing the Rules
Data to Digest
Four Kinky Types to Watch Out For
Twenty High-Culture Kink Classics
Games Kinky Lovers Can Play: Twisted Torturous Trivia Quiz
Kinky Reading List
Appendix: Speaking the Kinky Lingo
A Glossary of Scene Slang
Index
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ISBN: 9780684854625
ISBN-10: 0684854627
Audience: General
Format: Paperback
Language: English
Number Of Pages: 338
Published: February 2000
Publisher: Prentice Hall (a Pearson Education Company)
Country of Publication: GB
Dimensions (cm): 21.6 x 14.0  x 1.9
Weight (kg): 0.43