{"id":74328,"date":"2017-07-17T14:38:35","date_gmt":"2017-07-17T03:38:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.booktopia.com.au\/?p=74328"},"modified":"2017-07-18T10:01:53","modified_gmt":"2017-07-17T23:01:53","slug":"can-victims-abduction-families-ever-truly-recover-trauma-kylie-ladd-explains","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/blog\/2017\/07\/17\/can-victims-abduction-families-ever-truly-recover-trauma-kylie-ladd-explains\/","title":{"rendered":"Can victims of abduction, and their families, ever truly recover from the trauma? Kylie Ladd explains&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/the-way-back-kylie-ladd\/prod9781760297138.html\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-74330\" title=\"The Way Back by Kylie Ladd\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.booktopia.com.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/xthe-way-back-1.jpg.pagespeed.ic_.J_2dhx4aqp-1.jpg\" alt=\"The Way Back by Kylie Ladd\" width=\"284\" height=\"436\" \/><\/a><strong>Guest post by Kylie Ladd, author of <em>The Way Back.<\/em><br \/>\n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I first became interested in the ideas behind<a href=\"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/the-way-back-kylie-ladd\/prod9781760297138.html\"><em> The Way Back<\/em><\/a> over a decade ago, when US teenager Elizabeth Smart was reunited with her family nine months after she was abducted from her bedroom in the middle of the night; nine months in which the Mormon girl had been regularly bound, drugged and raped. The media focussed mostly on the details of her captivity and release, though what really intrigued me was how on earth Elizabeth could possibly recover from what she had been through &#8211; would it warp and twist the rest of her life, could she ever put the anger she must feel and the abuse she had suffered behind her? Elizabeth later wrote a memoir, claiming to have done just that\u2026 but then, it seemed to me at least, long-missing girls started turning up everywhere. Jacyee Duggard, kidnapped 18 years previously and recovered in 2009; Natascha Kampusch, abducted as a ten year old in Austria in 1998 and held for almost nine years; Amanda Berry, Gina DeJesus and Michelle Knight, imprisoned, bashed and raped in a Detroit house for a decade.<\/p>\n<p>As both a psychologist and a writer what fascinated me wasn\u2019t so much how these girls had endured what they did, but how (and if) they were able to pick up the pieces of their old lives and start again. The lost child is a popular trope in Australian arts and literature, but I was interested in exploring this from a slightly different angle: not focussing on the loss per se, but what happens next, when what is lost is found.\u00a0 And then too, there was this: when I was eight years old, a girl at my school was &#8211; like Smart &#8211; abducted from her bed in the middle of the night.<\/p>\n<p>It was January, summer holidays, and we would both be starting grade three in just under a month. I was looking forward to grade three: at our school, grade three marked the juncture where you were allowed to use a pen to write with instead of a pencil; were permitted access to the dizzy heights of the monkey bars on the top playground rather than being confined to the sandpits of the lower. But Eloise never got to swing on those monkey bars. It was a hot night, the night she was taken, and her bedroom window had been left open, the front door unlocked. When her younger brother went to rouse her the next morning he found her bed empty. There were no signs of a struggle, and the flywire screen was cut.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/the-way-back-kylie-ladd\/prod9781760297138.html\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-74337\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.booktopia.com.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/blog-heading-crime-month-mini.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"668\" height=\"27\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nOur sleepy seaside suburb erupted. The local police station was in my street, which was suddenly jammed with squad cars and media. Helicopters thundered overhead; sniffer dogs were unloaded from the backs of vans and strained, whining softly, on tight leashes. I was both appalled and fascinated. This couldn\u2019t be real. This was real. Eloise\u2019s mother, who taught my sister, left her job. We stopped running into her in the supermarket and instead only saw her on the front page of the newspaper and during the 6pm news.<\/p>\n<p>All for naught. Eloise was never recovered. Four decades later though, her mother is still alive, still lives &#8211; I believe &#8211; in the area, must still wake every morning wondering what happened to her girl. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/the-way-back-kylie-ladd\/prod9781760297138.html\"><em>The Way Back<\/em> <\/a>is not about Eloise, but is in memory of her. It is about enduring not only an abduction, but also its aftermath, and whether such victims &#8211; and their families &#8211; are ever truly released.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/search.ep?author=Kylie%20Ladd\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-74335 size-full\" title=\"Browse Kylie Ladd's books\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.booktopia.com.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/kylie-in-blog-1.jpg\" alt=\"Browse Kylie Ladd's books\" width=\"665\" height=\"350\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>About Kylie Ladd<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Kylie Ladd is a novelist, psychologist and freelance writer. She holds a PhD in neuropsychology and lives in Melbourne, Australia, with her husband and two children.<\/p>\n<p>Kylie\u2019s novels have been published in Australia, New Zealand, the US, the UK and Europe. Her second novel, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/last-summer-kylie-ladd\/prod9781743310816.html\"><em>Last Summer,<\/em><\/a> was highly commended in the 2011 Federation of Australian Writers Christina Stead Award for fiction, while her third,<a href=\"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/into-my-arms-kylie-ladd\/prod9781743319673.html\"><em> Into My Arms<\/em><\/a>, was selected as one of Get Reading\u2019s \u2018Fifty Books You Can\u2019t Put Down\u2019 for 2013. She has also co-edited and co-authored two non-fiction books, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/naked-leigh-langtree\/prod9781741754001.html\"><em>Naked: Confessions of Adultery and Infidelity<\/em><\/a> and <em>Living with Alzheimer\u2019s and Other Dementias. Her latest book is <a href=\"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/the-way-back-kylie-ladd\/prod9781760297138.html\">The Way Back.<\/a><br \/>\n<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Order <em>The Way Back<\/em>, or any book from the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/crime-month-our-top-crime-reads\/promo872.html\"><em>Who Dunnit!?<\/em><\/a> showcase, and you&#8217;ll go into the draw to <strong>win a $600 crime book pack!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/crime-month-our-top-crime-reads\/promo872.html\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-74293\" title=\"Order from the Who Dunnit showcase for your chance to win!\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.booktopia.com.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/crimemonth-prizepack-newsletter-616x151px.jpg\" alt=\"Order from the Who Dunnit showcase for your chance to win!\" width=\"665\" height=\"162\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Guest post by Kylie Ladd, author of The Way Back. I first became interested in the ideas behind The Way Back over a decade ago, when US teenager Elizabeth Smart was reunited with her family nine months after she was abducted from her bedroom in the middle of the night; nine months in which the Mormon girl had been regularly bound, drugged and raped. The media focussed mostly on the details of her captivity and release, though what really intrigued me was how on earth Elizabeth could possibly recover from what she had been through &#8211; would it warp and twist the rest of her life, could she ever put the anger she must feel and the abuse she had suffered behind her? Elizabeth later wrote a memoir, claiming to have done just that\u2026 but then, it seemed to me at least, long-missing girls started turning up everywhere. Jacyee Duggard, kidnapped 18 years previously and recovered in 2009; Natascha Kampusch, abducted as a ten year old in Austria in 1998 and held for almost nine years; Amanda Berry, Gina DeJesus and Michelle Knight, imprisoned, bashed and raped in a Detroit house for a decade. As both a psychologist and a&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":12,"featured_media":74352,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"spay_email":""},"categories":[4,23,6677],"tags":[1445,7084,3127,7720,7719],"acf":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/Kylie-SOCIAL.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/74328"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/12"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=74328"}],"version-history":[{"count":21,"href":"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/74328\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":74354,"href":"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/74328\/revisions\/74354"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/74352"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=74328"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=74328"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=74328"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}