{"id":100383,"date":"2019-06-14T13:37:26","date_gmt":"2019-06-14T02:37:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/blog\/?p=100383"},"modified":"2019-06-14T13:41:14","modified_gmt":"2019-06-14T02:41:14","slug":"listen-stephanie-wood-on-fake","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/blog\/2019\/06\/14\/listen-stephanie-wood-on-fake\/","title":{"rendered":"LISTEN: Stephanie Wood on Fake"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/fake-stephanie-wood\/prod9780143792208.html?utm_source=booktopian_blog&amp;utm_medium=booktopian&amp;utm_campaign=stephanie_wood_podcast\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"665\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/StephanieWood-Blog-1.png\" alt=\"Stephanie Wood\" class=\"wp-image-100433\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/StephanieWood-Blog-1.png 665w, https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/StephanieWood-Blog-1-300x135.png 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 665px) 100vw, 665px\" \/><\/a><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Imagine meeting the man of your dreams. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He\u2019s charming, funny, and interesting, with a fulfilling career and a gorgeous waterfront house. And he adores you. Everything is perfect\u2026 until it isn\u2019t. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He starts cancelling on you more often and telling you stories that just don\u2019t add up. But you love him, and you have no reason to doubt his word &#8211; right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Eventually the constant cancellations get to you and you break it off with him. You\u2019re heartbroken for a while\u2026 and then you get suspicious. You decide to dig a little deeper, pull up a few public records, call a few people, and run a few Google searches.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And then you discover that the man you loved isn\u2019t at all who he said he was.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is exactly what happened to journalist Stephanie Wood in 2015. Her exhilarating yet frustrating romance with a mystery Sydney man left her with more questions than answers, and so she put her journalistic chops to good use to uncover a story that is almost too wild to be believed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/fake-stephanie-wood\/prod9780143792208.html?utm_source=booktopian_blog&amp;utm_medium=booktopian&amp;utm_campaign=stephanie_wood_podcast\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"665\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/StephanieWood-Blog.png\" alt=\"Stephanie Wood\" class=\"wp-image-100439\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/StephanieWood-Blog.png 665w, https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/StephanieWood-Blog-300x135.png 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 665px) 100vw, 665px\" \/><\/a><figcaption>Journalist Stephanie Wood signing copies of <em>Fake<\/em>.<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Stephanie decided to document the entire experience, first in a <em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.smh.com.au\/lifestyle\/love-lies-bleeding-a-memoir-by-stephanie-wood-20170426-gvsqnx.html?utm_source=booktopian_blog&amp;utm_medium=booktopian&amp;utm_campaign=stephanie_wood_podcast\">Good Weekend<\/a><\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.smh.com.au\/lifestyle\/love-lies-bleeding-a-memoir-by-stephanie-wood-20170426-gvsqnx.html?utm_source=booktopian_blog&amp;utm_medium=booktopian&amp;utm_campaign=stephanie_wood_podcast\"> article<\/a> that went viral and now in a memoir, <em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/fake-stephanie-wood\/prod9780143792208.html?utm_source=booktopian_blog&amp;utm_medium=booktopian&amp;utm_campaign=stephanie_wood_podcast\">Fake<\/a><\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cI just had to tell the story\u2026 it was too good a story,&#8221; says Stephanie. &#8220;Once I\u2019d been able to get some distance from it myself\u2026 it was just such a fascinating story of psychology and love and just so many wonderful themes.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s a story that is equal parts fascinating and horrifying, and one that Stephanie found was all too common &#8211; <em>Fake<\/em> covers not only her story, but the stories of countless women across the world. It offers a tantalising glimpse into the minds of compulsive liars and narcissists, but also how perfectly intelligent, capable people can fall under their spell (hint: it\u2019s all to do with the psychology of falling in love).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cThere is really something about the addictive quality of love and there are scientific reasons for this to be the case.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Joel Naoum and myself sat down with Stephanie Wood to talk all about her book (after she signed a hefty bunch of copies first). Listen to our chat below and don\u2019t forget to grab yourself a signed copy of <em>Fake<\/em> before they sell out!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-soundcloud wp-block-embed is-type-rich is-provider-soundcloud wp-embed-aspect-4-3 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"Stephanie Wood: &quot;I totally fell for the fairytale.&quot; by The Booktopia Books Podcast\" width=\"1250\" height=\"400\" scrolling=\"no\" frameborder=\"no\" src=\"https:\/\/w.soundcloud.com\/player\/?visual=true&#038;url=https%3A%2F%2Fapi.soundcloud.com%2Ftracks%2F636288858&#038;show_artwork=true&#038;maxwidth=1250&#038;maxheight=1000&#038;dnt=1\"><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We sat down with journalist Stephanie Wood to talk about her memoir Fake, a story of love in a world of liars and narcissists.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":27,"featured_media":100390,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"spay_email":""},"categories":[6676],"tags":[7844,3362,3641,4464,10018,9483,6785],"acf":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/StephanieWood-Social.png","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/100383"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/27"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=100383"}],"version-history":[{"count":25,"href":"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/100383\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":100454,"href":"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/100383\/revisions\/100454"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/100390"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=100383"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=100383"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.booktopia.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=100383"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}