Stories I Only Tell My Friends by Rob Lowe

by |April 14, 2011

An astonishing memoir by one of Hollywood’s top actors

A wryly funny and moving account of an extraordinary life lived almost entirely in the public eye.

Teen idol at fifteen, international icon and founder of the Brat Pack at twenty, and one of Hollywood’s top stars to this day, Rob Lowe chronicles his experiences as a painfully misunderstood child actor in Ohio uprooted to the wild counterculture of mid-seventies Malibu, where he embarked on his unrelenting pursuit of a career in Hollywood.

The Outsiders placed Lowe at the birth of the modern youth movement in the entertainment industry. During his time on The West Wing, he witnessed the surreal nexus of show business and politics both on the set and in the actual White House. And in between are deft and humorous stories of the wild excesses that marked the eighties, leading to his quest for family and sobriety.

Never mean-spirited or salacious, Lowe delivers unexpected glimpses into his successes, disappointments, relationships, and one-of-a-kind encounters with people who shaped our world over the last twenty-five years. These stories are as entertaining as they are unforgettable.

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About the Author

Rob Lowe is a film and television actor who has played such diverse characters as a teenage rebel (The Outsiders) and a White House senior staffer (The West Wing). Outside of acting, he is involved in politics. He lives with his wife and two sons in California.


Lowe, Actually

About to walk away from Hollywood, in 1982, Rob Lowe went for one last audition: Francis Ford Coppola’s The Outsiders, which had every aspiring young actor jockeying for a role. The rest (from St. Elmo’s Fire to The West Wing and, now, Parks and Recreation) is modern matinee-idol history. In his soon-to-be-published memoir, the star relives the competition among his L.A. posse—the likes of Robert Downey Jr., Sean Penn, Charlie Sheen, Emilio Estevez, Patrick Swayze, and Tom Cruise.

By Rob Lowe• Photograph by Annie Leibovitz

There are plenty of dedicated, talented actors destined for jobs they hate, chasing in vain a dream that will never come. Soon I’ll have to start thinking about college and possibly reconsider my life’s direction. I’ve had just enough success to keep me chasing the dream, but not enough to ensure a career. I promise myself I won’t be one of the deluded ones, being the last to know that my moment didn’t come, and that I should’ve hung it up long ago. I’m going to be 17 soon. Am I already a has-been?

Luckily, I’ve made some great friends despite the time I’ve spent on my career. Jeff Abrams and I follow Magic Johnson’s arrival in L.A. and shoot hoops whenever we can. Jeff’s a huge Björn Borg fan, while I’m a Connors man, and we spend hours on the tennis court, attempting to learn the new “topspin” forehand. Along with Chris Steenolsen and Josh Kerns, we hang out and steal booze, go to beach parties and on road trips in Josh’s gigantic hand-painted “road beast”—a 1969 Impala. Good students and serious about school, we are hardly pro-level hellions, but we have some fun. To read more you’ll have to get yourself a copy of Vanity Fair…

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  • Naga Deepika

    September 14, 2011 at 3:09 pm

    What a wonderful man!! ..No words & his interview in Oprah Show is really worth while watching. He came out of tears in between the show, which is just an live example how deeply he was humiliated that time….his wife Shelly is the luckiest one he owned & So is Rob.

    A Wonderful Husband to his Beautiful wife….A Great Father to his lovely boys….what else is needed for a peaceful life…!!

    Rob we are waiting for more wonderful Books like this.!!
    Also a message to Hollywood- we are lacking with great movies Glass House,My Best Friend Wedding….which are related about Love ,Friendship …all kind of relations which are Perfect in their world. I guess this is basically lack of Drama & Emotion these days…Kindly please pass on this message…because they are millions of generations waiting ahead…and we shouldn’t remain without any message left to them.

    Naga Deepika Chavali ,India.

  • February 29, 2012 at 5:50 pm

    Wonderful insightful story of Rob Lowe’s beginnings nowing fromt he time he was 8 years old he wanted to be an actor and the hard work and determination involved. Loved the behind the scenes for the movies he was in. He has a very good tone he sets in this book. Very interesting.

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