Kerri Sackville, author of When My Husband Does The Dishes… answers Ten Terrifying Questions

by |April 7, 2011

The Booktopia Book Guru asks

Kerri Sackville

author of When My Husband Does The Dishes…

Ten Terrifying Questions


1. To begin with why don’t you tell us a little bit about yourself – where were you born? Raised? Schooled?

I was born in Melbourne but raised in Sydney. I went to a Jewish school down the road where I did very well in English and spent the rest of my time pining in unrequited anguish for a boy called Josh Goldenbum (not his real name, but should have been).

2. What did you want to be when you were twelve, eighteen and thirty? And why?

At 12 I wanted to be a member of the Young Talent Team. I still wish I had been.

At 18 I had absolutely no idea what I wanted to do. I was doing Arts at Uni and working part time as a nanny.

At 30 I wanted to be a mum, which was lucky because I was pregnant with my son. I didn’t start writing professionally until after my daughter was born, nearly 10 years ago.

3. What strongly held belief did you have at eighteen that you do not have now?

At 18 I felt that in order to be happy I had to figure out the meaning of life. It took me well into my thirties to realise that the best way to be happy was to stop tormenting myself with existential questions and just live.

4. What were three big events – in the family circle or on the world stage or in your reading life, for example – you can now say, had a great effect on you and influenced you in your career path?

1. Marrying my husband. Not only does he provide me with endless material, but he impregnated me with my three other greatest sources of material.

2. Stumbling onto Twitter. When I discovered Twitter I was at a very low point in my life, and feared I would never write again. Twitter provided me with inspiration, stimulation, and a fabulous community, and helped me ease back into writing 140 characters at a time. It quite literally changed my life. (BBGuru: Follow @KerriSackville)

3. Starting my blog. A Twitter buddy, @fender4eva, liked my tweets so much he asked if I had a blog. I’d never considered blogging before but I rose to the challenge, and once I started writing again, I found I couldn’t stop. About nine months later, I began my book. (BBGuru: Subscribe Life and Other Crises)

5. Considering the innumerable electronic media avenues open to you – blogs, online newspapers, TV, radio, etc – why have you chosen to write a book? Aren’t they obsolete?

No! Blogs are entertainment, but books are works of art. I love books. I love the way they feel. I love seeing them on my bookshelf and carrying them around. I love dog-earing the best pages and underlining things. And let’s face it – you can’t get an autographed blog post.

6. Please tell us about your latest book…

When My Husband Does The Dishes… is a memoir of marriage and motherhood. It’s about what my life looks like 150 years after I walked off into the sunset with my partner (and what your life probably looks like too). It’s about avoiding sex and hiding arguments from the kids and being late for school and breaking up with friends and having endless fantasies of Simon Baker. It can be read in one go, or in short bursts while sitting on the toilet or waiting in the car.  (Read author Kylie Ladd’s review of When My Husband Does The Dishes… Click here…)

To order a copy of When My Husband Does The Dishes… click here to go through to the Booktopia Bookshop.

7. If your work could change one thing in this world – what would it be?

I want people to read my writing, think “YES! That’s exactly what it’s like!” and feel better about their own challenges by laughing at me.

8. Whom do you most admire and why?

Malcolm Gladwell, for being an incredibly original thinker and fascinating writer. Chelsea Handler, for being the most hilarious (and sexy) writer, comic, and talk-show host. And every member of the Young Talent Team, for living out my fantasy.

9. Many people set themselves very ambitious goals. What are yours?

I never tell people my goals. Most of the time I don’t even admit them to myself. It’s way too humiliating if I don’t reach them.

10. What advice do you give aspiring writers?

Find your voice and use it. Every writer needs a point of difference, and you are yours.

Kerri, thank you for playing.

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About the Contributor

While still in his twenties, John Purcell opened a second-hand bookshop in Mosman, Sydney, in which he sat for ten years reading, ranting and writing. Since then he has written, under a pseudonym, a series of very successful novels, interviewed hundreds of writers about their work, appeared at writers’ festivals, on TV (most bizarrely in comedian Luke McGregor’s documentary Luke Warm Sex) and has been featured in prominent newspapers and magazines. ​Now, as the Director of Books at, Australia’s largest online bookseller, he supports Australian writing in all its forms. He lives in Sydney with his wife, two children, three dogs, five cats, unnumbered gold fish and his overlarge book collection. His novel, The Girl on the Page, will be published by HarperCollins Australia in October, 2018.

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  • April 7, 2011 at 10:52 am

    I love this! (and the author, which made me the perfect person to unbiasedly review her BRILLIANTLY FUNNY AND GOBSMACKINGLY ACCURATE book). I particularly love the answer to question 9, because I am exactly the same: “Goals? What goals? These old things? Oh, I’ve had them for ages. They’re jus so comforatble that I’ve never botheed getting new ones.”

    Kerri, I am sure this book will go gangbusters. It should. Your voice is well and truly your own and it is a remarkable one!

  • April 7, 2011 at 11:02 am

    Love your advice. Great answers Miss Kerri xx

  • April 7, 2011 at 12:44 pm

    Love this. Can’t wait to read the book. It will be very handy for swimming lessons and soccer mornings.

  • April 7, 2011 at 1:08 pm

    Great answers, kerri! loved this interview and can’t wait to read THE BOOK!
    Nice pic of Simon Baker, too!

  • fender4eva

    April 7, 2011 at 1:32 pm

    I take full credit for urging Kerri to start her blog. It’s given more people the chance to experience her wicked sense of humour. One of these days, I’ll be able to tell people, ” I know Kerri Sackville “. That’ll be just before I have to tell them, who she is…….. 🙂

  • April 7, 2011 at 2:36 pm

    Great interview Kerri. I’d like to say I read all of it, but I kept getting distracted by the photo of Simon Baker. Off to pre-order your book now. I am so excited for its release. You are a wonderful voice in Australian literature x

  • April 8, 2011 at 7:30 pm

    I already love you Kerri, but if you could write a book telling me how to find a Simon Baker-like husband who does the dishes A LOT I would love you more … xo

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