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Before Their Time - Mary Stimming

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"Before Their Time" presents adult children survivors' (defined as 18 or above at the time of the parent's death) accounts of their loss, grief and resolution following a parent's suicide. In one section, the book offers the perspectives of sons and daughters on the deaths of mothers; in another, the perspectives of sons and daughters on the deaths of fathers. In a third section, four siblings reflect on the shared loss of their mother. Each of these survivors faces the common difficulties associated with losing a loved one by suicide. They also experience difficulties specific to their status as both adult and child. Topics such as the impact of the parent's suicide on adult children's personal and professional choices, marriages and parenting, sibling and surviving parent relationships are explored with sensitivity and insight. Various coping skills, including humour, are described. The writers describe feelings of regret and responsibility related to their parent's suicide. They express concern about other family members' vulnerability to suicide. They speak openly about the fears and stresses they face and how they cope with them. The authors ranged in age from 19 to 35 at the time of the parent's death. Between one and 25 years have passed since that tragedy. In addition to the first-person narrative, the book includes a resource section with a national listing of suicice survivor support groups; an overview of existing research on survivors of suicide by John L. McIntosh, past president of the American Association of Suicidology; and an essay on elderly suicide by David C. Clark, secretary-general, International Association for Suicide, and editor-in-chief of "Crisis". The book is introduced with a foreword by Rev. Charles Rubey, founder and director of Loving Outreach to Survivors of Suicide.

Loss of a Mother
A Joyful Spiritp. 3
Home and Beyondp. 7
Center Piecep. 15
Changes of Directionp. 19
Caretakingp. 21
The Prodigal Son Diariesp. 25
Crossroadsp. 36
Range of Visionp. 40
Grandchildrenp. 46
Suicide as Family Destiny?p. 48
Loss of a Father
Old at Heartp. 53
Growing toward the Lightp. 56
A Saving Cursep. 78
I Will Not Die of Regret: A Letter to My Fatherp. 83
Of Fathers and Sonsp. 92
The Process of Cultivatingp. 95
Flying Lessonsp. 101
Professional Lifep. 106
Life without a Parentp. 107
Perspectives on a Common Loss
Uncommon Gracep. 111
Endings and Beginningsp. 123
It's the Story of a Lovely Ladyp. 133
What Life Has to Offerp. 140
Research and Resources
The Puzzle of Suicide in Late Lifep. 145
Research on Survivors of Suicidep. 157
Selected Annotated Bibliographyp. 181
Directory of Suicide Survivor Support Groupsp. 183
Indexp. 191
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ISBN: 9781566396554
ISBN-10: 1566396557
Audience: Professional
Format: Paperback
Language: English
Number Of Pages: 227
Published: 14th December 1998
Country of Publication: US
Dimensions (cm): 20.3 x 12.7  x 1.91
Weight (kg): 0.26