This book explains how to gain an intimate relationship with both your wife and with God. Using practical steps to create a closeness that many men desire but often times self-sabotage due to their pride quotient. Jack has taken the teachings of "dying-to-self" to a level that benefits the marriage by reducing conflict and eliminating the pride factor that can often times disrupt the marriage union. Jack states, "It is better to lose your pride to your wife than to lose your wife to pride." Therefore, this book attempts to use both serious and light hearted examples to keep the reader motivated and to desire that deeper relationship. and to ponder. Are you doing enough?.for your wife, for your life and for God!