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All You Need Is Love and Other Lies about Marriage : How to Save Your Marriage Before It's Too Late - John W Jacobs

All You Need Is Love and Other Lies about Marriage

How to Save Your Marriage Before It's Too Late

Paperback Published: 1st March 2005
ISBN: 9780060509316
Number Of Pages: 272

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Why is it so difficult to remain married in the twenty-first century, and what can you do about it?

We all know that half of today's marriages end in divorce, but we tend to believe that our own marriages are safe. As psychiatrist John Jacobs explains in this fresh and impassioned book, marriages today are incredibly fragile, and unless a couple understands what is making contemporary marriage so vulnerable to dissolution, the marriage is at risk.

Part of the problem is that people refuse to see how social and historical forces have changed the very meaning of marriage, causing serious interpersonal unhappiness. Because of increased longevity, married people live together longer than at any time in history. There's been an erosion of the social and cultural forces that traditionally kept marriages together. Confusion over gender-role responsibilities, increased expectations of sexual satisfaction, and intense time pressures on couples to work and be successful all create marital stress.

And yet, most people don't acknowledge the problems in their marriage until it is too late. We tend to believe in the "lies of marriage" -- such concepts as soul mates, unconditional love, that children improve a relationship, that the sexual revolution has made marital sex more pleasurable, or that egalitarian marriage offers couples easy solutions -- and forget to engage in the constant hardwork required to keep our marriages alive.

Dr. Jacobs believes that most marriages have significant problems at some time, but until we recognize the new realities of marriage and develop the skills required to sustain a loving, intimate relationship, marriages are at risk.

Of course marriage is about love. But that's just the beginning.

"Enlightening.puts the conflicts of modern married couples into historical and cultural perspective. Astute [and] authentic." -- Cleveland Plain Dealer

ISBN: 9780060509316
ISBN-10: 0060509317
Audience: General
Format: Paperback
Language: English
Number Of Pages: 272
Published: 1st March 2005
Publisher: HarperCollins Publishers Inc
Country of Publication: US
Dimensions (cm): 20.07 x 13.21  x 1.78
Weight (kg): 0.23