Defining the Probability of Needing This Book
In this lesson, you'll learn whether you're a good candidate for relationship advice, or whether you could have just bought several packets of Fantales and not worried about this book.
(Italicised text in brackets are Hamish's comments)
(Did you know Goldie Hawn was born on 21-11-45? Now we're just as good as Fantales.)
You have purchased, stolen or been given this book because:
- You believe (or someone who knows you does) that you could benefit from some relationship advice.
- You are at a crossroads in your relationship.
- You buy guides and textbooks for every other aspect of your life - why not love?
- You're dyslexic and thought the title read Teri Hatcher: A Biography.
(I guarantee you, that didn't make Grandpa put it down – he just flicked ahead.)
It is for women (single, dating or in a Proper Rela¬tionship) who feel baffled and frustrated by men, or who know that, deep down, they could be happier in their romantic relationships.
It is for women who are DOING THEIR HEAD IN waiting for That Guy to call, or text, or email, or exhibit some sign of a pulse.
It is for women who 'always seem to end up with arseholes'.
It is for women who are bored of complaining to their girlfriends that they can't find a man. Or a decent one who doesn't play games.
It is for women who are sick of analysing their boy¬ friend's actions to the point of madness.
And it is for women who feel like they have lost them¬ selves in their relationship.
(It is for women who don't mind having a book that is pre-scribbled on, and doesn't appear to have been discounted for it.)
In a series of simple lessons (and by simple I mean extraordinarily difficult) this book instructs you on how to be more in control of, more at peace with, and more successful in your romantic relationships. We used the textbook format for several reasons. One is so that you can refer back to pertinent lessons with ease when you need them. Another is because we wanted to make it absolutely transparent how important it is to possess an artillery of reliable strategy and intelligence if you want to find that elusive Perfect Relationship, and by being forced to learn it in a recognisably edu-cational format, you're more likely to take it seriously and remember it. Finally, it's fun to make pie charts.
You'll learn what it is you are doing to inhibit your happiness and your chances of a fulfilling relationship. You will learn how to deal with the fact that when it comes to biological wiring, men and women are roughly the same as a bedside lamp and a killer whale.
(Also, it was easier than tracking down Ms Winston from your old high school to explain it to you. I wonder how old 'wobbles' Winston is doing these days . . . ?)
It won't all be sweets and slippery dips, though - the rebuilding of your confidence and fostering of an understanding of how this all works requires dedica¬tion and the valuing of long-term satisfaction over instant gratification.
(Then you can have some sweets and slippery dips.)
TAKE A TEST
For the following questions, award yourself 22.1 points for every 'Yes' and 14.6 for every 'No'.
Releasing a single?
Unhappily single but pretending you're happily single?
Single because every time you're offered a shot at love, you freak out?
Single because he is incapable of committing to more than just casual sex?
Dating a guy who is doing your head in?
Dating a guy whose head you are doing in?
In a new relationship?
In a new relationship you're worried you may ruin?
In a new relationship that he is sabotaging day by day?
In a new relationship but angry he won't admit to it on Facebook?
In a relationship that has lost its excitement?
In a solid relationship that doesn't seem to be progressing?
In a solid relationship that features the same fights again and again?
In a solid relationship with a wobbly looking future?
In a solid relationship that needs some refreshing?
In a solid relationship but considering breaking out?
In a solid-steel shipping crate?
If your final answer was a number over 14.6, then this book is definitely something you should read, under¬line furiously and read again.
(Or buy a new copy to underline again, and again. I promise this suggestion to re-purchase the book has nothing to do with the fact that I would like a new television.
Also, at the end of each chapter, if there's some room left and no one is looking, I may actually have some sort of thought in the topic discussed in the chapter. I can't guarantee I'll have one every time, but if I do, I'll pounce on it. Nor can I guarantee these thoughts will be of the highest quality, as we can see by this one, which is essentially just a promise to try and have more thoughts. Enjoy the book.)
Number Of Pages: 264
Published: 1st July 2012
Dimensions (cm): 19.9 x 13.1 x 2.0
Weight (kg): 19.9
Edition Number: 1
About the Author
Zoë Foster enjoys writing author biographies because she gets to write things like, 'Zoë Foster is Australia's most critically acclaimed and bestselling author,' and, 'In 2010, Foster was controversially awarded the Pulitzer for the second time' despite the fact that all of these things are untrue.
Things that are true include her role as contributing editor at Mamamia.com.au, and dating columnist for Cosmopolitan magazine. She was previously the editor-at-large of beauty website primped.com.au, beauty director at Harper's BAZAAR, and prior to that beauty director at Cosmopolitan magazine.
Zoë has published two novels, Air Kisses and Playing the Field, as well as the dating and relationship book, Textbook Romance (written in conjunction with Hamish Blake). A collection of her best beauty tips and tricks, Amazing Face, was released in 2011, and her next book, a novel, will be published in March 2012.
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Wouldn't it be great if there was a textbook with clear lessons on clever dating and how to build that Perfect Relationship? One that tells it straight but lets you laugh at yourself too? One that leaves you with your dignity and your personality intact? There is!
Zoe Foster, relationships guru, provides whip-smart step-by-step lessons in successful romancing, with male commentary from self-confessed male, Hamish Blake.
From 'Never Drink and Text' to the secrets of avoiding the 'Thai and Tracksuit Pants Curse' and the meaning of 'Engaging the Apricot', Textbook Romance is essential reading for every girl looking for love that lasts.
About The Authors
Zoë Foster enjoys writing author biographies because she gets to write things like, 'Zoë Foster is Australia's most critically acclaimed and best-selling author,' and, 'In 2010, Foster was controversially awarded the Pulitzer for the second time' despite the fact that all of these things are untrue.
Things that are true include her role as the editor-at-large of beauty website primped.com.au, columnist for The Sunday Telegraph, and the dating columnist for Cosmopolitan magazine. She was previously the beauty director at Harper's BAZAAR, and prior to that beauty director at Cosmopolitan magazine.
Zoë has published two novels, Air Kisses and Playing The Field, as well as dating and relationship book called Textbook Romance, (written in conjunction with Hamish Blake). A collection of her best beauty tips and tricks, Amazing Face, goes on sale June 2011, while sadly a collection of her worst beauty tips was pulped before it reached the shelves.
Hamish Blake once got one side of a Rubik's Cube all the same colour and describes his knowledge of relationships as 'a touch less successful than that'. Which is okay, because all he has to do in this book is reveal what guys think, and he has been a guy since he was born, and technically even a little bit before then. He co-hosts the national radio show Hamish and Andy, writes a monthly column for Cosmopolitan, appears regularly on TV's Thank God You're Here and Spicks and Specks, and is the author of Dave and Hamish Hate Girls (written at age 7), although his hardline stance on females has softened since the publication of that work.